Marriage & Divorce - 4 July 2006

i'm in love trouble now.i'm single. my beloved gal is 23 yrs now. i'm 42 already.her birthdate is 1983.8.10.
she refused me because of my age.she said my age is double
to her.
so may i know can i marry her or not?
because i love her very much.i'm still trying to marry her.

2006-07-04 19:43:23 · 7 answers · asked by than10002000 1

I really don't want to get married. I know I'm still young, but with all of the problems I've had with men in my life, I don't trust any of them. Can I be happy without getting married? I love kids, and I'd love to have them, but I don't want to have them if I don't get married. Is that normal?

2006-07-04 19:37:45 · 11 answers · asked by Jenn 2

About six months ago I found out that my husband was on the DL (sex with men). Our marriage was on a scale from 1-10; I would give it about a 4, because he never spent much time with me. He would be at home maybe 30% of the time. I would always express how much i wanted for him to spend time with me. He always replied that he would but, it never got better! But anyhow, after I found out about him being on the Down Low , I was sick to my stomach for a while. I tried to make the marriage work because I love him and of course for the kids (they just love him to death). I found myself talking about my problems to an old friend. I ended up having sex with my friend (whom I don't love) and getting pregnant by. Idon't believe in abortons at all!! I have applied for a legal separstion because I'm just not ready to let totally go (despite what I found out). It's so hard to let go when you've been with a person so long. Also, I'm worried about how my kids will feel abouth us not being as 1.

2006-07-04 19:34:34 · 9 answers · asked by tm 1

How do I let him know that he can ask me to marry him?

2006-07-04 19:15:59 · 28 answers · asked by lissapony 2

i did very wrong thing to my husband and his family, they were so mad at me to the point that his mother want to annul our marriage...my husband lives with them now for almost 2 weeks, and i am very afraid that he will be convince to leave me forever by his mother...we just had a talked last night and beg for him not annul our marriage and i'm glad he agreed with me but still there was that hatred in which i could feel from him towards me...what should i do for him to forgive me, i love him so much..

2006-07-04 19:10:03 · 26 answers · asked by ann 1

not that i am incapable of loving, but i realize that i loved more fiercely and freely when i was younger. and after being burned many times, it is sooo difficult for me to conjure romantic feelings up for anyone. it's like i have a wall and even though i'd like to break it down, i just can't. instead of love, i get a sick/disgusted feeling in my stomach sometimes-and i know it's me and not the other person.

how do you fall in love again with a young heart?

2006-07-04 19:09:56 · 7 answers · asked by Claire E 1

2006-07-04 19:07:32 · 10 answers · asked by goodlife 1

2006-07-04 19:06:59 · 12 answers · asked by goodlife 1

2006-07-04 19:01:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-04 18:59:08 · 6 answers · asked by missy3283 1

My husband says that 3somes are cheating and he dont believe in cheating but his fantasy is to have one.He said he wants to have one with abeautiful girl. I've thought about but i am scared it might hurt our relationship.But it kind of sounds nice,at least to have a girl down there on me.Should I?

2006-07-04 18:55:38 · 15 answers · asked by kpoa 1

Every People Say Love Is Love
But I Didn't see that love is bad word
but my answer to this Q. is

i love too many Girl But i Know Now This Is Not Love
**** Love

2006-07-04 18:55:14 · 7 answers · asked by 7amada Ebedoo 1

A friend of mine is about to go through a divorce father lives in Texas..mother is an english citizen..child was born in Tx and is 2 yrs old..6months ago father and mother seperated.Father gave mom written notorized permission to take child back to england with her and has not had much contact with them. How does the mother go about filing for child custody? She is applying to get the childs dual (England)citizenship. At this point it is believed the father will give her custody. Who will have jurisdiction and where will she have to file for the custody at? The Texas courts or English?
Thanks in advance for any help from anyone who has encountered this.

2006-07-04 18:53:35 · 2 answers · asked by starrfarie 1

I want to marry with a good man but I cant find him. What should I do?

2006-07-04 18:53:12 · 8 answers · asked by Violet 1

This is about my husband we have been together for 2yr. We come from 2 total different backgrounds. Him south side Chicago and me surburban state of NY. He's a self proclaimed street ***** & me never had to deal with any type of street issues (if u know what I mean). We met Feb.14 04 married April 23 04 we have 1 child together and I had 2 children from my previous relationship of 12yrs. He's 23 and I'm 31.I know u c some of the problem right from the start but we are good for the most part. But he always take what I say as a personal dis. What is up with this. I'm at my wits end I don't know what 2 do. I feel I have to think about everything that comes out my mouth. What 2 say what not 2 say how 2 say it what tone 2 use. It's driving me CRAZY!!! I come from a very strict up bringing so talking kind of rough sometimes just comes natural 2 me. He's 23 & still calls his mother MOMMY. Even when he's making reference 2 her "and my mommy say's....". Please help me if u can.

2006-07-04 18:44:14 · 5 answers · asked by floetic23503 1

I know I can change my password. I choose not to because I at least keep his incidious behavior at bay. If I change it he will move on to a new way to invade my life.

2006-07-04 18:40:34 · 8 answers · asked by bob 2

Here it is. I'm married for the second time ( 7 yrs.) and have one child with my current husband. (My first marriage lasted 4 years and ended because I couldn't easily get pregnant). Now I'm in a situation where I'm hanging on to this "marriage" to try and set a good example for my son. Both my husband and I are from divorced families. I'm 30, a full time 4.0 college student, own my own business and am cute and funny. I am the only one trying here though. I've tried changing personally, spiritually, emotionally and the sit. never changes. I've even read all the Dr. Phil realtionship rescue books! My husband will be nice for a day or two and then verbally put me down and say terrible things. The next day he's sorry.I just don't know when to throw in the towel. I guess I'm scared to try starting over again at my age ...not that I'm old, it's just the dating field is so young. He doesn't make me feel special at all and never gives me credit for all I do. Work, school, cook, clean, mom.?

2006-07-04 18:39:33 · 10 answers · asked by Jo 2

My husband gets e-mails and text messages from 2 females. One in which he had a past relationship with and the other which is the town bicycle. Though he says they mean nothing he gets messages such as Sorry about last night, I had to run, and where are u? He will not block the e-mails and has not changed his cell phone or figured out how to block the number on his cell. Would any normal person not get upset over this?

2006-07-04 18:31:42 · 21 answers · asked by Gremy 1

me and my husband are having this very bad problem with each other and the sad thing is, his mother keep meddling with our lives...to the point that she wants to annul our marriage, it really hurts me a lot and i want to die, what will i do? my husband live with his parents now for almost 2 weeks, i'm afraid that his mother would convince him to leave me forver...i love my husband so much, his my life...i've been crying for ages now and i think i'll be crying forver...

2006-07-04 18:24:33 · 22 answers · asked by ann 1

2006-07-04 18:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance met this guy at work and he has decided to move in with him. We were planning on getting married in February and now he says that we'll have to put off the wedding because he is planning on living with this guy for the next year. He just met this guy two months ago. This guy drinks, smokes wd and parties a lot. I let him know about my feelings, but he thinks that it is no big deal. Should I just let it go?

2006-07-04 18:23:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-04 18:18:12 · 11 answers · asked by linn 1

2006-07-04 18:09:23 · 16 answers · asked by chris_bourgeois80 1

i met my wife 8 yrs ago, i thought she was perfect to start a family with ,, we fell in love, been married for 5 yrs .. i want kids, i love kids, we have bad luck getting pregnant, and she came out and told me that she doesnt really care if she has kids or not ,, i thought about leaving many times but i feel like the reason why we dont have kids is because i asked my ex-girlfriend to have an abortion when i was 20 yrs old i feel like its payback for my sin, i regret it very much now,, im losing intrest in her rapidly even though i love her, and always daydreaming about being with other women that want to have my children ,,i must be crazy.anyone can help with this one?

2006-07-04 18:02:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

and u feel like its your best friend then anything esle

2006-07-04 17:58:39 · 15 answers · asked by Hot baby 1

She started sh*t with me first.

2006-07-04 17:58:19 · 13 answers · asked by Its Me 3

Out with his friends so very often, comes home and argues with me. When i work late, he is so negative and ends up hitting me, what can be done..i dont want to leave him because of our children..what do i do again, pliz someone help me..

2006-07-04 17:58:19 · 15 answers · asked by Concerned advisor 1

2006-07-04 17:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-04 17:43:33 · 9 answers · asked by twenty3 1

2006-07-04 17:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous