2006-07-04 18:59:08 · 6 answers · asked by missy3283 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sometimes, how life turns out is not up to you. All you can do is live the best of it every day. But, as I was once told, love is a decision, you love that person because you have chosen to love him/her. How it turns out after that is not entirely up to you.
2006-07-04 19:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is all about choices we make...good or bad...and we must take responsibility for those choices. We may not be able to contol who we fall in love with, but we can control the actions that are to follow. For instance, you can fall in love with a mass murder, but that doesn't mean you should marry him or have babies with this animal, right? Or if the one we fall in love with is married...never put your life on hold waiting for them to leave the marriage as the odds are not in your favor that it will happen. So why build your life around someone else?? You can decide how your life turns out, with our without being in love.
2006-07-05 08:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be smart enuf, and know them more better. Don't just hop from one to another. Time your time, and shop around. Play a lilttle on the ball field. We live, we make mistakes, we learn from them, and we go on in life.
Sometimes fate deals us a crapping hand. We might not meet that hunk, that we dream about. But we don't have to stop, at every dumb-butt along the way either.
Men/women are like a bus stop. They will come and go in your life. But you have one life to live. Make the best of it.
2006-07-05 02:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has a funny way of working its way into our lives when we least expect it, we decide how we want to live our lives, but we can not help who we fall in love with right? , our hearts do that for us! We lead ourselves into that persons life somehow, so maybe we do decide who we fall in love with in a way....Hmmmmm Good question!
2006-07-05 02:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i cant predict the future and obviously niether can you remeber life is full of surprises you should just let life come naturally because everytime you write a life plan it never turns out the same
2006-07-05 02:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe life is like water it takes the shape of the container , you put it in, and if you pour it on the ground it flows in watever direction, nobody knows why, and how!!We seriuosly cant control falling in and out of love, its just the natural way it has to be, dont bother and dont worry, nature will take its course , and it will just happen.
you cant control it , and it shld never be controlled and was never meant to be controllable, so let it happen, naturally my dear..
2006-07-05 02:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by MaiTah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋