2006-07-04 17:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He probably needs time to get used to the changes that are taking place....give him the love and support he needs, you will feel it come back to you, give it time.
2006-07-04 17:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been working third shifts for the past 4 yrs, and believe me, all I want when I get home is peace. You could try to be more understanding, by making the time that he's home, say on week ends and offs nicer and more comfortable. Just DON'T nag him. That will simply turn him off.
2006-07-04 17:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Allen K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's dog tired!
I worked the night shift a couple of nights to fill in and let me tell you that is NO walk in the park! For one, most people sleep better at night. These people get off work, drive home and crash. They sleep all day and only spend a few evening hours with their family/friends. He's just tired.
2006-07-11 01:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not act like it, but he is showing it, by taking on a third shift, he wants to make sure that you are provided for. just give him time and the love and some affection, it will pay off
2006-07-04 17:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is tired i worked third shift for 6 yrs it was awful and i didnt realize it until after i quit. i feel ten years younger being on a normal shift. trust me its not your husband its the hours
2006-07-04 19:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by corvairchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 3rd shift has unusual requirements...he is not allowed to love anyone but the job..hasn't he told you yet.??? he will. Or, maybe he is so damned tired he doesn't know which end is up..it takes a lot of time to reset your clock. At least, he doesn't beat you any more...so count your blessings.
2006-07-04 17:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol been through this my wife is mad as heck lol was an over thr road truck driver my sleep was minimum to say the least or the hours of sleep would change with every load , now i changed jobs and are home every night and things got good for a bit but the job is more demanding physically and its hard to want to be cozy when you want to sleep or just want to be doing anything to solve our long day i hard at times but remeber you married for better or worse and these are the times that will make your marriage worth it in 20 years love him he is working for you
2006-07-04 18:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By working three jobs, Iam surpise he still knows his own name. He could be stress out, and very tired when he comes home. He still could love you, but busy all the time. Iam surpise he can stop long enuf to make love.
2006-07-04 18:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a female ,but for me ,when I worked 3rd shift all I felt like doing was sleeping. I'd drag myself to the shower and get ready to work again. Sleep, work, sleep, work.
2006-07-04 17:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have children? my husband works third shift, and i hate it...the only time we ever have time alone is after the kids go to bed, but he works while thier in bed, so....i have time alone, while he works and kids sleep, very little time alone, adjusting to that is hard on both of you.
2006-07-04 17:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋