2006-07-04 19:01:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on you rlevel of commitment and what the issues are.
If the person has cheated on you, they have broken the contract (if you are married).
If the trust issues are such that there is no trust at all, on anything, then my question would be, why still with them? I agree, trust is everything.
If you can trust them on big things, but they have a lying problem on smaller things, that is less black and white. I have been with that kind ... and decided it wasn't worth the headache and heartache, but that was my decision.
Good luck.
2006-07-04 19:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In an ideal world the answer would be yes. That partner you couldn't trust or rely on would magically change and become the perfect partner, apologising for all the times they acted suspiciously, and for all the times they let you down.
In the real world, you need to look out for number one. If your partner has slept around and continues to do so there is no point of staying with them just because of 'love.' Loving someone is a natural thing, but is also very destructive. Why ruin your life being unhappy, wondering whether he is sleeping with someone else while you sleep there alone because he's 'Gone out with his friends.'
If you can't rely on him, if he isn't there when you need him, you are better off alone. Trust me
Good luck.
2006-07-04 22:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust them or rely on them then I think you should break the relationship off. It's not good for you or your partner to live together and always wondering what the other is doing. Either learn to trust each other or break up.
2006-07-04 19:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you from personal experience NO. I tried so hard to trust my partner, he was so convincing, but in the end I just ended up with what I knew I would in the beginning an untrust worthy partner, who let me down time and time again. Relationships have to be built on trust, if you have no trust you have nothing.
2006-07-05 10:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you are with a partner that is that un-reliable then it should be expected that the only one to rely on is you-(ONESELF) as far as trust goes- well the only thing you can trust is your initial feeling, and that is already knowing that your partner is just a partner and not your soul mate. you can have several partners until you have your complete package!
1-friend
2-lover
3-stability
4-security
and all the in betweensin that one person to play those roles!
2006-07-04 19:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by flurtly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, so don't waste any more of your time. I did this for six years and no matter how much we talked, and he promised to change, things stayed the same...in fact they got worse.
I got out of the relationship with intentions of never having anyone else in my life again. A year later I met a wonderful man, dated him for over a year and then married him. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I couldn't be happier. We've been together almost 10 years now.
My husband has been with me through sickness and health, and I have also been there for him. That's the way it's supposed to be. Cut your losses and move on sweetie, you'll be glad you did!!
2006-07-04 19:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO there is no point. Before loving them, u need to love urself and put urself and ur interests first. You cant just live a miserable life because u think u can over look all the crap ur "significant other" puts u through. I know its easier said than done but without trust, no relationship will work.
2006-07-04 19:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by lost_realist_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta look at the facts is the person is even trying to make u trust them or is the person is trying to be reliable, if they dont or never put effort then maybe it not wise to stick around but if they do try it worth it becouse the hardest thing in a relationship is to have both your need and wants figure out which side she on and u decide for then on
2006-07-04 19:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by bliss-p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of relationship do you have? You need to trust each other, that's what being a partnership is all about. You have to be there for each other as back up, & if that's gone, then so has the relationship!! Sorry!!
2006-07-05 03:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is something that you have to earn, You have to earn your partners trust, your partner has to earn your trust. If you love someone enough then trust can always be rubuilt if it is lost.
2006-07-05 01:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Little Miss Naughty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋