i am going thru a divorce. the truth is, thru this 9 year marraige, i have always had feelings for an x-lover. he is married, but i would just like to say hello. is this wrong?
2006-07-04 14:27:09 · 5 answers · asked by i'm still in love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not at all. you are trying to remember your prior life and who you were. its happy, exciting and does no harm. you will certainly now make him leave his wife and try to jump you unless he's just a cheating fool. almost all of us, at times, think of someone from the past; even if its just a fantasy.
hang in there darlin'
2006-07-04 15:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Yes, it is morally wrong and also would you have wanted someone to do that to you? Think before you do something that can lead to problems. Just because your going through a divorce don't make another family to do the same. Leave it be and go on with your life.
2006-07-04 22:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your intentions are. The best way to get a feeling is by dropping a easy email: "Hi, how are you doing?" type of thing. It sound like you are more curious than anything else. I have often wondered how ex-girlfriends were doing over the years - especially ones I dated early in my life.
Don't expect too much - don't push it if he does not respond. Don't expect him to leave his wife for you.
2006-07-04 21:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. PhD 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes...if he is married (for sure) let him be. It's best not to get things too mixed up if you are going through a divorce.
Keep moving forward in your new life....Enjoy all.
2006-07-04 21:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by mlgav 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NOT AT ALL GO FOR IT
JUST DONT RUIN HIS LIFE IF HIS MARRIAGE ISNT AS BAD AS URS
2006-07-04 21:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋