My ex of 10 years and I split 9 months ago. I found out 2 months ago that his girlfriend was prego, my kids (6 & 9) are not happy about this and I want to know how to help them. I myself feel as if our marriage was all a lie. He already has moved her in and he tells me it has nothing to do with me. What do I do for my kids and myself. This is the most difficult situation I have ever been in. According to my kids the g/f yells and cusses at their dad. That upsets me because neither one of us is a fighter. My son said he stays in his room when she is yelling at daddy? Help!!!
2006-07-04 14:34:44 · 5 answers · asked by goo71 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the only thing you can do for you and your kids is move on with your own lives don't sit around thinking about 'what if'. it's done and he has to live the life he has now chosen so that can be his punishment :) your husband is old enough to look after himself and make his own mistakes, just don't feel that those mistakes are also yours.
2006-07-04 14:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by gonetotallymad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ID TAKE THIS TO COURT AND GET CUSTODY AND SUPERVISED VISITS. LIKE ANOTHER IM SAID, HE PROBABLY BANGED HER FOR A WHILE AND NOW THAT HE GOT HER KNOCKED UP, HE PROBABLY WILL REALIZE THAT HE MADE A BIG MISTAKE. HE MAY NOT COME BACK TO YOU BUT IF YOU MAKE MORE OF A MESS SHE JUST MIGHT LEAVE ALSO AND ALLEVIATE SOME OF THE PROBLEM. HE WILL NOW HAVE TO SUPPORT THE KIDS FROM BOTH OF YOU AND HE'S PROBABLY FEELING REAL SALTY ABOUT CHASING PUSSY IN THE FIRST PLACE. SO ID GET HIM IN COURT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.
2006-07-04 21:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i guess, i don't really have any good advice, just my sympathy. It must be hard, with her being pregnant and all on your kids... I sort got the feeling you have feelings for him still, sorry if i am wrong, i would expect you to is all. hopefully you can talk to him about the fighting in front of your kids, I wouldn't let them over if he can't at least say he'll work on it.
2006-07-04 22:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by petluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this to court and get the children you can on this matter. ?
2006-07-05 00:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in love with the sex only. trust me on this, it will get old.
2006-07-04 21:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋