I use to be married to this guy whom I thought had a very close knit family. They were very loving to each other. But as I got to know the family and the years went by in our marriage I learned some things about them that just were not right. I began to see that they were not as close as they acted. My husband (now my ex) hardly spoke to his family. Most of the family would try to talk to my husband and he would just sit there without responding. Due to circumstances we had to vacate the house we were renting and we had to move in with his parents until we found another place. Months went by and next thing I know my husband moves out because he says he needs time to work alot of overtime so he can get the things that our children deserve. He wouldn't tell me where he was living. I found the place on my own. His parents called him 2 tell him I knew where his place was. A few months later he served me with divorce papers. Only to find out he was involved with his ex mistress
2006-07-04 13:21:19 · 6 answers · asked by cecimad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now they are married and trying to take my kids away. He has 2 other kids he has no relationship with. They r older than our 2. His family has no relationship with the other 2 kids either. According to my ex and his family I have brainwashed everyone and that is why they don't see the other 2 kids. My kids and I go visit the older siblings whenever we can as much as we can. We have been since before the divorce was final. The kids really love me as I do them. But having to deal with my ex and his family is so difficult.
2006-07-04 13:25:36 · update #1
No I am not venting anymore. I stopped over a year ago. Angry? Yes. My ex and his new wife have lied so much in court about the children. Like for example in court they stated that the new wife dropped off our son in the town where I live at a burger stand where he met with a friend and picked him up there a few hours later. Totally untrue. She actually dropped him off at my sister-in-law's house that is no longer with my brother but living with some guy, and has a long history of domestic violence issues, arrests, drug use, etc. and to top it all off she and my brother don't have custody of their kids, my parents do. But my ex- and his wife denied it in court when questioned and in their response.
2006-07-05 21:20:51 · update #2
Sounds like the whole thing was a charade.
Or what I call mystical thinking. The guy did not live in the real world. And let me guess, when ever you gave him a dose
of reality he likely rejected it?
2006-07-04 13:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by rjm96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow well i am sorry u r having to go through that but just be as strong as u can and fight for ur kids u r sort of winning at it b/c if u can find proof in the court that ur ex doesnt care for his other 2 kids u can actually win ur own and well i guess next time hopefully u can have more luck with a guy who doesnt have such a psycho family
2006-07-04 20:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are experiencing is "dysfunction" You need to clean your slate..move out get on your own. Then seek counseling, don't forget you need help to heal this very emotional drama that is probably draining you. Your ex-husban and family do have some serious problems..but focus on you now
2006-07-04 20:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah , I could tell you stories about my in laws
but it would take too long , my father in law actually
took shots at me with a 30/30 rifle for starters
2006-07-04 20:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by BONE° 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm your question isnt really a question...is it? i think your venting. but if it is a question yeah its a little psycho. but a lrage part of my family is like that
2006-07-04 20:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Nausea is annoying!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be on jerry springer or maurey povich
2006-07-04 21:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋