Marriage & Divorce - 21 June 2006

2006-06-21 19:07:45 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

She found out 3 months ago/ It still bothers her but I can't bring myself to admit it. She won't let it go, and i'm trying to convince her it wasn't mine.(although it was) It is a Yahoo 360 adult site showing and talking about my opinions on nudity. the pics I have r beautiful nude models and i think she's jealous of them. She also knows of the site where I pretend to be a 19 y.o. lesbian. I feel bad about it, and am slowly deleting stuff on it. If I totally delete it, it'd be obvious it was me. What should I do to get us over this hurdle?

2006-06-21 19:02:05 · 23 answers · asked by whoremonger 1

No 3rd parties please

2006-06-21 18:47:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get mixed signals. She'll watch it with me if she's a little intoxicated, but hates it when she's in her normal mind. (She's not an alcoholic) I do show her I'm interested in all ways. I hug, kiss her, compliment her, but I also like to look at porn, and sometimes like to draw nude women from photos only. Am I just a normal guy?

2006-06-21 18:40:41 · 28 answers · asked by whoremonger 1

I hear many women say they were in abusive marriages. did you see the signs he could turn abusive when you were dating? or was it a surprise, did he turn onto jeckyl and hyde after you married? I dont understand how men can beat their wives, if they r supposed to love them. i know abuse is hate not love, so how can a husband who took vows to love u turn into hating their wife, unless they just married the women because she got pregnant.

how bad was the abuse? verbal, physical, often or just when he drank? did he hurt the kids or attempt to?

2006-06-21 18:37:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

how long before kids meet Dads new girlfriend??
my boyfriend and I have a strange relationship, we've been together for 12 years, 2 kids, in the making of this hysteria, ages 6,12. He's had several others in the mean time, they have ony met 1. (Which turned up to be short term (>6mo.) But I keep taking him back (DR. PHIL???)This time I'm sure we're thru, but how many different chicks do I expose them to, and how long should I wait?? I want to instill good family values. (He's always the cause of the "break-ups")
So, my question is how long before they meet dads new GF???

2006-06-21 18:34:02 · 6 answers · asked by mina 2

Me and my husband have been married for almost 3 years. We don't have sex very often but when we do it seems like when he uses his fingers on me i get more stimulation than i do with his penis and no his fingers are not bigger than his penis i don't understand why i get more out of his fingers....Anyone have any idea?

2006-06-21 18:31:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and dad are fighting because of a missing ring! And it's the ring they used during their marriage! What do I do?

2006-06-21 18:23:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-21 18:22:15 · 14 answers · asked by jbjefferies 3

2006-06-21 18:19:21 · 14 answers · asked by torontofabsingle 2

My wife and i had a really hard time for a while and she felt she wasnt in love with me. I left state and now she wants to be with me and work everything out. We almost got a divorce and i want to do everything i can to prove to her that she is making the right choice. What do i do. I am head over heels in love with her i ant to spend every second by her side but i am scared to smuther her. How do i show her that we can make this work and be how we were when we first got married? I want everything to be as perfect as possible for her. She is coming out to get me around the first. Anything i can do to make her miss me more until then. I just want her to be happy to see me. I want her to smuther me. I truely feel like we were made for eachother. Any SERIOUS suggestions?

2006-06-21 18:17:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She really likes to do things that I like to do and we have alot of fun together. We are not sexual, but we both very much want to be. Please help!

2006-06-21 18:15:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-21 18:13:39 · 8 answers · asked by Bluelover 2

her husband treats her like **** and shes 8 years older than me. and im willing to wait 4 her as many years as it may take. is this alright???...........all i want 2 do is, give her a better life........ and yes im single

2006-06-21 18:04:31 · 21 answers · asked by theobious 1

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2006-06-21 18:03:13 · 1 answers · asked by bill2 1

Please don't give me a range. Answer the specific year.

2006-06-21 18:01:12 · 11 answers · asked by funkymonkey 3

From the time you start dating, how long is to long to wait to get married. 2 years? 4? 5? 10 !!!

2006-06-21 17:45:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been engaged before and he ended up cheating on me so i left him now i dont think i will ever be ready to go that far into a relationship. is because ive been hurt badly and dont have that trust in men any more or is it just me?

2006-06-21 17:32:07 · 12 answers · asked by holden1982 1

both of us have abondanment issues for different reasons - we both want it to work - any ideas?

2006-06-21 17:29:01 · 12 answers · asked by seztoguy 2

In my experience it is 1 or 2 times per month. Is this normal?

2006-06-21 17:25:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for over 10 years (been together for 13). In the last three months we've only had sex once. We talked about it a month ago and he said he was just tired. I am physically attractive, an ideal weight so at least I know its not because he's completely disgusted by me. But I'm confused, and feel very hurt and rejected. Any advice? What is the normal time for a guy that is too long without sex? I am 29 and he is 31. Help???

2006-06-21 17:21:41 · 18 answers · asked by Jess 2

I mean should I keep waiting , she says shes not sure but is in another relationship with a guy she doesn't like. we have 3 kids and married for 14yrs. I try not to think about her but when we talk on the phone(I call her) i just get so angry and hurtful. I just want things to be normal again

2006-06-21 17:18:51 · 25 answers · asked by Mr.J 1

No one would loan me a magic 8 ball...

2006-06-21 17:12:26 · 15 answers · asked by Cheri72 1

do you think its wrong to have thoughts about cheating on your hubby after he has emotionally cheated on you over and over and says it wont happen again but always does........and you are 100% faithful, always by his side, and always willing to forgive his mistake.
NO im not weak i give him hell afterwards and he knows im a cm away from my breaking point. but understand i believe in my marriage but a person can only take so much.
Is it wrong to want him to see how it feels to have the person you love the most break your heart. i have never wanted to cheat on him until recently i dont even look at other men........yes i am a good woman and i know this.........so serious answers only no bs i have NOT cheated EVER.

2006-06-21 17:08:45 · 18 answers · asked by mrsurgtech09 3

2006-06-21 17:07:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think? She's a liar always has been. He totally denies living with her and isn't her boyfriend. I'm in WV and he's in MS and I haven't seen him in 5 months. It sux.

2006-06-21 17:01:05 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

We have been married for almost 2 years and together almost 4. I grew up an only child and very independent. My husband claims to be independent but his mother is very controling and ALWAYS did things for both the boys, especially him since he was the youngest of the two. So his independence is nothing like mine. I love him dearly but he constantly involves his mother in our financial status and asks her for help when we need it. I understand that being young and married (and in school) can be hard but I just want both of us to have control over our lives. When she gets involved, all control goes to her and my husband and I fight about that. He thinks that there is nothing wrong with it but I feel like I am just his roomate who happens to share a bank account. I hate getting mad at him but not talking to me about and involving his mother does not help. I am all about communication. We are both 23 and I feel that we should be dependent only on each other. Am I wrong for being upse

2006-06-21 17:00:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is 46, not married has a girlfriend. I am 50, married. He says things that makes me think he likes me? I told him I was having trouble at home and he said he was available if I needed to talk. We met the next week after work. He gave good advise; see a counselor; try everything to work it out. My kids are grown and giving me grief. My boss told me not to stay in the marriage if I am not happy; that the kids will come around. Before we left he said 'do not stay if you are not happy' then asked for a hug. We met two weeks later; I told him the counselor said I should move out to help me think but I could not afford to. He knows the stress I am under and told me he did not want to lose me? That before it got too bad to let him know and 'we can work something out'. That I am valuable and again said he could help. He said again he did not want to lose me. Is this just about work? I want to ask him but am scared to death! I have a huge crush on this man? Help!

2006-06-21 16:18:16 · 10 answers · asked by Suzan R 1

I know we wives nag a lot. I am wondering what you would prefer. Say, you REALLY need to take care of something and we want to remind you of it. Should we just mention it once and never say another word, or just mention it once in a while? What do you consider nagging? Maybe give some examples.

2006-06-21 16:14:36 · 12 answers · asked by My Avatar 4

they are really in love and have a baby together...they have been together for about 4 years and the last 3 was spent while he was in prison....he plans to take care of them both and make up for lost time..what are your feelings on this? The reasons behind his prison term has nothing to do with killing or rape or drugs......

2006-06-21 15:59:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous