Marriage & Divorce - 21 June 2006

2006-06-21 07:35:15 · 18 answers · asked by aamirabbas_pk 2

My husband and I have been married for 13 years. We have a pretty good sex life, but it seems like such a chore for me. I enjoy it when it happens, but I have a difficult time getting in the mood to initiate anything. My hubby gets frustrated because he feels like he's almost "begging" me for some nookie. I have orgasms and he is very pleased afterwards, too, but I just have a hard time getting aroused. Please help!

2006-06-21 07:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by Babs 2

2006-06-21 07:30:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I say yes, because if she accept it, she must have low life not to stand up for her rights. She is 35 years old, so she can work and care for herself. Why she would not leave and find a job? Why she play the poor and afraid or the love excuse?

2006-06-21 07:29:27 · 22 answers · asked by Sam 3

2006-06-21 07:18:02 · 4 answers · asked by misslanaj00 1

It's not money, I have that. We have two kids, and we are currently separated, he treats me like crap, sucks me in and spits me out whenever, I don't get it why I let him do this to me over and over. How do I stop loving a man that doesn’t love me?

2006-06-21 07:11:01 · 25 answers · asked by xwasanasss 2

When she had full I was paying $1500 + medical. I am only asking for $300 from her for our teen boys.....I will still cover medical. Does that sound fair to you?

2006-06-21 07:05:56 · 52 answers · asked by Sunny And '74 4

2006-06-21 07:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

was thinking about cheating myself but answers were pretty good

2006-06-21 07:03:04 · 30 answers · asked by coolcherry 2

2006-06-21 06:54:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

responses. Or it will destroy further whatever little of his marriage is subsisting. I am married for 30 years..

2006-06-21 06:46:07 · 12 answers · asked by mann54 2

2006-06-21 06:45:35 · 33 answers · asked by drink_til_you_puke 1

Thats what I thought. But when my wife started speaking the dirty talk during sex, it kinda turned me off a little, like who is this woman. Any of you with the same thing?

2006-06-21 06:44:14 · 4 answers · asked by Andy S 3

what would be the best solution if both partners do love each other so much but there are just differences that can't be change and comes in their way. and these differences make them bitter to themselves and to each other. do they have to part ways? or to try to work things out for another chance. it's been almost 5 years since they're together as married couple.

2006-06-21 06:41:56 · 23 answers · asked by camcam 2

my boyfriend says no--- I say it has everything to do with marriage.

2006-06-21 06:39:04 · 8 answers · asked by ♥-=-TLCNJ19-=-♥ 5

My ex-husband and I have always been so close and it seems that we've finally grown apart. It sounds funny but we've always had a blessed relationship. Just because we couldn't be together anymore, it never meant that we stopped loving each other. But now, we've both moved on but I can not help that everyday now, I agonizingly miss and want him more.We've had our times, during lunch, a few stollen moments but now it's all stopped. I've been in a new relationship but it doesn't compare to what I had by any means. Now he wants to try his luck again out there, after grieving for two years over our divorce, but all I know is that I would do anything for us to rewind to where it was before we seperated. We've become such different people and our new lives are destroying us by bad decisions and his newly found excessive alcohol abuse...I have this sick fantasy that we can "save each other" am I just being outrageously spoiled wanting him back or could this actually happen?

2006-06-21 06:34:53 · 9 answers · asked by Juniper N 1

after 10 years of marriage and 3 kids my husband has recently become abusive. I have not worked in years (been home w/ kids),I don't even have a drivers license or car and no money . I don't know where or how to start. I have become completely dependent on him, think thats why he thinks he can get away w/ what he does. Only serious answers, please.

2006-06-21 06:31:34 · 17 answers · asked by darby 1

It's a $439 home based marriage counseling program

2006-06-21 06:29:44 · 2 answers · asked by Paul S 1

I honestly do not know why. I like sex though. I guess I like wham bam thank you ma'am kind of sex.

I am married.

2006-06-21 06:27:57 · 35 answers · asked by Evey 6

A month ago, I replaced a window, but not the blinds in my bathroom. I noticed after that my neighbor (she is married, so am I) was peeking out of her blinds. I have seen her do this several times and she has seen me catch her looking. We don't mention it when we speak on the street. I really like her watching. What is going on?

2006-06-21 06:17:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Had a telemarkter call you and ask for by your first name like they're your friend or something? But on top of that if that person is of the oposite sex then you, can you see how that might cause a fight with your girl? I think they should not be allowed to do that.

It's already happen to me, and now my girl friend keeps going on and on about " who was that girl " blah blah blah

ps: If you say no he is not home, they just say thanks bye instead of saying the nature of their call

2006-06-21 06:17:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

See the thing is I am with a woman I have been with for over three years and she new who I was when we met and now the fact that I like things out side the norm she is telling me more and more that it is becoming a problem. Well I really care for this woman but I dont want to comprimise who I am just to suite her this should be a two way street in my opinion but I am a guy and this puts me to a disadvantage when it comes to argueing my side of the situation. So I need some ideas to a good comprimise between us or should I just give up and move on and find another freak like myself.

2006-06-21 06:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by cydneyblack2 1

My husband became friends with a female coworker and he bagan spending all his free time with her. Eventually he became less attracted to me and spent less and less time at home. I had left him for a few days and he begged me to come home and i did. He told me he didn't cheat but in my heart i know he did. He stopped seeing her but i'm still concerned with their relationship. It's only been three weeks since that and now things are no better. He want us to split up, but I don't. I'm so confused with this decision. Why did he ask me to return if he didn't really want me ther? I divorce enevetable?

2006-06-21 06:05:43 · 39 answers · asked by A S 1

Why is it that girls always have this dream of walking down the isle and wearing a big fancy dress and spending a absolute fortune???
I don't have that dream would much rather be in a relationship with someone i love and spend the money on having fun.
Just wondering!!!!!

2006-06-21 06:05:40 · 13 answers · asked by Bridget Jones 1

My husband when it comes to oour sex life will not listen to me about tring new thing. Im not tring to get him to do anything crazy i just want to do something rather than on my back or doggie style.

2006-06-21 06:05:24 · 11 answers · asked by shedevilinlust 1

why does it alway seem that the husband is always compromising more to the wife in a marriage to keep her happy.

2006-06-21 06:02:44 · 17 answers · asked by rick 1

My Husband & I Have been together almost 25 yrs. ago. We have a son that is now 23. My Husband is a PRETTY BAD DRINKER I really don't know how much more I can take ? He has always drank a couple beers @ night, now he is into drinking the hard stuff, I got really sick about 5 yrs ago. When I got so sick, He was not there for me. What hapen to the voels we took, In marriage for* better or worst, in sickness & health.*I know there is others out there that life the same life, How do U coup w/ it. he say'ssome really BAD things while he is drunk and say's, He don't remember it the next day. I am a NON DRINKER >>...I just don't understand. I thought about going to AA to see if they can Help me understand. should I become a drinker also? How do U cope? He has a heart of Gold. that was the person I feel in love with. but, he's killing it slowly. I don't want that. sometimes win he gets drunk I would rather him pounch me than hear some of the things comes off the wall with ? PLEASE HELP ME !

2006-06-21 05:58:37 · 12 answers · asked by Nancy D 2

this is for legitimate answers only! no jokesters, or any crass inappropriate comments please. im looking for answers. i am a career motivated person. i've lived a good portion of my adult life living from check-2-check while i achieve my education and then have that 1 job be it upon graduation. but my partner is just drifting through life, expresses no motivation other than to play vid games, or improve the music collection. please advise what or if there is anything i can do to assist this person. just a little more info....i will not drop my partner. he has a good job, and does it well. he's just not as motivated as i am career-wise.

2006-06-21 05:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by lastbutton 1

2006-06-21 05:52:51 · 17 answers · asked by funkymonkey 3

2006-06-21 05:47:14 · 3 answers · asked by caribbeangal 3