2006-06-21 06:45:35 · 33 answers · asked by drink_til_you_puke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
better:send her a picture with your new, slim girlfriend:)
2006-06-21 06:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you trying to be a jerk to her by rubbing it in her face that's she's gained weight or are you actually asking if this is appropriate considering her weight gain?? I'd send it either way. Cheesecake is the best! And her weight issues are her own, but don't be too mean about the whole thing.
2006-06-21 06:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Alpha Female...... and get a life my friend stop obsessing with your ex wife So, yes send her the cheescake... along with your spy device
2006-06-21 07:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by din 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really shouldn't be responding to this question. My divorce came final on the 23rd of December 2002, and I sent my ex-husband a Christmas card, and on the inside I wrote "You have just gave me the best Christmas Gift."
But since then I have moved on with my life, and he keeps trying to keep in touch, but I feel that I divorced him because I did not want anything else to do with him. We did not have any children, and he was very abusive emotionally, so I have a better life now.
This is your decision, if you want to be mean, and your ex deserves it then go for it. But if you want to cut ties and go on with your life, then don't, that will only give her satisfaction of knowing you are still thinking of her. You might be thinking of her in a bad way, but you are still thinking of her.
Hope this makes sense.
2006-06-21 06:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was depressed after the divorce and turned to food for comfort. Sending her a cheesecake would just be adding salt to the wounds.
2006-06-21 06:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever wondered that maybe your divorce had something to do with her gaining weight before you started making fun of her???
2006-06-23 07:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by celine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's rude. People gain weight when something is upsetting them and they use food to comfort them. You are the whole reason she is getting fat. Try comforting her in a different way instead of adding to the weight gain. I bet she loved you lots, so why would you want to promote her getting fat?
2006-06-21 06:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by hotmama3712 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no send her 2 cheescakes! she'll get mad if u only send her 1!
2006-06-21 06:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by homegurl_58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your EX so why in the hell are you worried about how much weight she has gained. Leave her alone and live your own life now.
2006-06-21 08:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she got rid of you she must have lost at least 300lbs first so 50lbs isn't much. Send the cake!
2006-06-21 06:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is mean and u are divorce if u care for her u should help her if not y u care if she gain or lost weight
2006-06-21 07:24:20 · answer #11 · answered by vanecin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋