2006-06-21 05:47:14 · 3 answers · asked by caribbeangal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, congratulations.
I suspect you are asking about "married life" and not about the run-up to the wedding next month.
The first week, you'll be in total shock, getting used to the idea of being married, laughing when someone calls you "Missus Whatever". The first month, you'll be honeymooning (literally, "honey month"), getting used to living together, having the occasional moment when you bump or miss or say something wrong. The rest of the first year (and for the rest of your life), you'll be fine-tuning those early efforts, trying to get to learn all about another person. And don't kid yourself, even superficially shallow people can take a lot of study.
Congrats and remember, take it easy. You've got the rest of your life to get it right.
2006-06-21 05:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulations! I've been married for almost three months and I don't feel any different. I've been waiting for a lightning bolt to strike me and say "YOU'RE MARRIED!!!" but that hasn't happened. I guess it's because we had such a good relationship before we got married, that it doesn't seem any different. Our only "obstacle" was figuring out what to do with all the money we got from the wedding, so definitely discuss that now!
2006-06-21 05:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by Christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty much exactly what you put into it... dont ACT married, be spontanious, compliment them, ect ect and you SHOULD have a good marriage for how ever long you put in 100% and your spouse puts in 100%... when people say its 50-50--- theyre wrong, its 100-100....
2006-06-21 05:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by heavensent41770 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋