My husband when it comes to oour sex life will not listen to me about tring new thing. Im not tring to get him to do anything crazy i just want to do something rather than on my back or doggie style.
2006-06-21 06:05:24 · 11 answers · asked by shedevilinlust 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It may be because he is embarrsed and remember hes a man and telling them how to have sex is an ego thing. He may not have had much experiance either. Dont tell him just do the things you like to him for a while and see if he starts to come around.
2006-06-21 06:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a book on posistions and show it to him and look at it together with him. Try on top once and see if he likes it . Buy some flavor and have fun with it and try oral on him and him on you. Let him try something new on you and then you do it for him. Compromise and see how this works .... You may also want to buy a couples sex toy and try it to and also a sex therapist might be able to help the both of you. I wish you both the best! Tell him how you feel and that you really want to change things and spice it up and try to take charge lol ... He just may love ya for it and dress sexy and seductive for him in the bedroom another great idea is to buy a sex board game called Foreplay... Tease him and play with him and turn him on and he may just be open to try and do more things with you!
2006-06-21 14:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is scared- afraid you wont like it and maybe it wont "measure up" to your previous experiences of that nature. Take it slow and play-- tag. Which is I'll let you do this IF you let me do that.
And have lots of KY on hand, on stomach, on *** cheeks etc etc etc
2006-06-21 15:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks, any other man would love the communication. Maybe he actually feels he can't perform? or maybe he feels it's degrading to you?
2006-06-21 13:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by RUAQT? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take charge, if you can! do you know how many men would love to have a chance to be with someone like you??? there would be lines out the door...Good luck!
2006-06-21 13:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
check out if his work is interfering with his emotional life.Maybe he's resistant to change,so you and nobody else will have to work things out. Seek for help, only if you want things to work out.
2006-06-21 13:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by derrick r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great question. he is lucky that you want to try new things and have fun!
maybe instead of asking him, just try to get in to something new.
guide him with your body not words.
that should work!
2006-06-21 13:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to do it, but not with U!!! he is gotten to comfy with U...plain and simple....laziness
2006-06-21 13:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
laziness
2006-06-21 13:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish i was him,,, i'm trying to get wife to try new things,,,,any idea's,,,,????????????
2006-06-21 13:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋