I honestly do not know why. I like sex though. I guess I like wham bam thank you ma'am kind of sex.
I am married.
2006-06-21 06:27:57 · 35 answers · asked by Evey 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a straight female. and yes my hubby wants me to have an orgasm by oral but I just want to be banged insatiably, I don't care if I get off or not.
2006-06-21 06:51:24 · update #1
You really don't care if you climax or not? Wow!!!! Well I guess some women are like that. Sounds very selfless. Unless you get sheer pleasure out of the banging alone.
2006-06-30 14:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Are you getting off? If not than that would explain it. Especially if you are married. To me it sounds like you don't get enjoyment and that you are doing it because it is a "wifely" duty. I love sex with my husband and yes, we will do it sometimes that is quick and rough, but most of the time, it will be a session that we both get something out of. Hell, the way I look at it, he is not the only one that gets the enjoyment. I am a person too and if I have to go through the trouble of having sex, then it will be good for me! Not just him.
2006-06-21 06:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband make you orgasm? Does he indulge in foreplay? Maybe you like it quick because it is not pleasurable. Now, if you do get off, and are satisfied, and he is too, then what is the problem?
Maybe it's just the insane, passionate, out of control sex you like. If you want that, but need itto last, make him stop just before you or he comes - then start all over. Change positions! It can be wet and wild and wonderful and last more than 30 seconds.
2006-06-21 06:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lazy maybe. Bored of the wife (or husband)maybe. Need to spice up the romance life maybe. Hey they have these new things out cost like $15 (usd) anyways its a ring that go's around the penis like a c*ck ring but at the top there is a little vibrating thing for stimulation for the woman I think she will enjoy it as well as yourself c*ck rings make you last longer in bed and when you finally cumm it will be like exploding You should try that. or they also have these different shaped pillows for different sex positions not sure on the price but they look really ...umm interesting! Good Luck
2006-06-21 06:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by spitly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am the same way...I have no clue why either. I have had bad sex and great sex. But I like the wham-bam-thank you ma'am kind too. Just fun... I think of it I can have more and more in a day period then just one big one.
2006-06-21 06:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's what you have always been use to in previous relationship? Could be the thought of what the man is doing to you and seeing him get off on YOU is still exciting whether you orgasm or not.
Explore alittle. You might come to find there are other things that turn you on.
2006-07-03 05:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I too, love to get it fast and hard and my husband is always teasing me that I don't give him a chance to truly enjoy it...haha So we generally compromise with some oral first for both of us and once I've came two or three times that way we get on to the real bangin..and then of course I'll *** a few more times that way.... So I dont think there is anything wrong with likin it fast, its a rush...so maybe if you and your man work something out you both can walk away satisfied.
2006-06-30 08:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are married and have been together for a long time you find out what buttons to push and push them well!! There is no need for the "hour long sex" regimen when you both achieve goal in ten minutes or less. It just shows that you know what you want and how to get it.
2006-06-21 06:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just want the orgasm without much of the work up to. Maybe there's not much sizzle left with your partner to want to prolong things and enjoy the act as much as the orgasm. Maybe you could spice things up with some things that would really turn you on and keep your interest more.
2006-06-21 06:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by jasonlajoie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is like ice cream. Everyone has a favorite, and it can change with time, or maybe it won't. Either way, it is always good and if you are getting it the way you like it more often than not, then just enjoy it.
2006-06-21 06:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋