See the thing is I am with a woman I have been with for over three years and she new who I was when we met and now the fact that I like things out side the norm she is telling me more and more that it is becoming a problem. Well I really care for this woman but I dont want to comprimise who I am just to suite her this should be a two way street in my opinion but I am a guy and this puts me to a disadvantage when it comes to argueing my side of the situation. So I need some ideas to a good comprimise between us or should I just give up and move on and find another freak like myself.
2006-06-21 06:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by cydneyblack2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Babydoll, if she really loved you, she would not be asking you to change. Why is she asking you to change now? After 3 years?
Be true to yourself - there is someone out there who will love you for you and not want you to change a thing!
2006-06-21 06:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her then you can compromise and change a little. You have been together this long then it is time to change for the better. I understand that you said you do not want to have a one way street then ask her to change something about herself and you will too. GOOD LUCK dont just give up after three years that is what everyone does when things arise in a relationship.
2006-06-21 06:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change who you are unless you want to change. I'm sure there is a freak who likes you for you somewhere out there dude!
2006-06-21 06:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to change yorself to make someone happy. if u are looking for a freak, go to a circus, but your life isnt one, so why dont you just look for someone that actually likes you for who you are
2006-06-21 06:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋