Marriage & Divorce - 21 June 2006

I'm not coming from any religious standpoint, but WHY do people think its alright to divorce when there are children between the two people? I mean, if theres abuse involved, thats one thing, but parents tearing apart a family because theyre "unhappy" does NOT seem okay. It is SO much harder for the kid to grow up with one parent. All the people i know with two parents turn out so much happier (usually) than those of us raised by one parent. Who disagrees with me? Why?

2006-06-21 10:12:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was married 11 years before , i had 2 years without intimacy or sex! { red flag went up and i caught her cheating!}

i have been married almost 2 years we haven't had sex for a while! i talked to her about it and she thinks im putting the blame on her, im not !!i was never agressive!!{i do give her nylons and cute stuff i love on her!}

2006-06-21 09:54:52 · 8 answers · asked by paul 2

2006-06-21 09:51:13 · 7 answers · asked by Desiree L 1

Look at the response by User empty cans about halfway down.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgUJ9Hd08.CE9cYi0a6OoIrsy6IX?qid=20060616111907AAcwglm

empty cans - if you are reading this, CONTACT ME. You're in need of a good rebuke you cruel, uncharitable witch.

2006-06-21 09:51:00 · 1 answers · asked by Veritatum17 6

The reason is, I hardly get to see my sons now and I pay so much child support, I am living at the poverty level. If this is possible, do I still have to pay child support?

2006-06-21 09:42:54 · 16 answers · asked by thumper36301 1

My spouse forgot our 4th month aniversary. I got upset but, they said it was an accident and I should forgive and forget. How mad should I be?

2006-06-21 09:41:25 · 26 answers · asked by ~sexy*girl~ 2

this could be a book, but i'll condense. 5 years ago, i met this guy at work, we hooked up, (he was a 32 year old virgin) hello, red flags, and we ended up married. he has never made a secret of the fact that he likes models, movie stars, blondes, blah blah blah. very immature, mamas boy, blah blah blah. he has improved some, but i cant get past the things he has said in the past. No, he hasnt cheated on me, but i dont really trust him. if someone came on to him, i'm sure he would oblige. he hasnt the balls to come on to anyone himself. he doesnt communicate, is somewhat emotionally abusive. works every day, doesnt drink, or beat me. i want out. the clincher is that he is borderline intelligent, and i feel sorry for him. Will someone who can be objective help me? i made a bed of misery, and i cant stand the thought of the future.

2006-06-21 09:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by caelestisinferno64 1

In another question i asked, i said my parents were divorcing. now they ARE divorced. but my mom was always a stay at home mom. my dad wont lend us money for child support. im only 11. my moms getting started up again in buisiness, but we still may not have enough money. my brother (age 10) has a job at a karate school which he teaches at... he teaches 5 year old kids. but now i have to get a job... i feel so torn up now. and confused.

2006-06-21 09:30:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you're married,living together for financial reasons,and love is no longer there, what do you do?i know as far as love is concern i'll never love another man , i feel like i'm incapable of love.this is my 2nd marriage same bulls**t , i'm tired of being the woman and the man of the house.my husband and i rarely have sex, maybe if we're f***ed up,we will .sex is not a factor but should i feel guilty if from time to time i go elsewhere for satisfaction?

2006-06-21 09:08:47 · 28 answers · asked by babyblues 2

Help! My fiance has 5 kids. I love them dearly, as I have none besides them. However both moms are drugged out, abusive, money hungry, vengeful women! The courts are no help with us. One mama owes over $3k, the other wiped us clean of over $40k in a divorce settlement her infidelity caused! They cause me and the kids so much stress, yet the kids still love them as their moms. Meanwhile I feel like the one doing all the raising, getting no credit and losing my shirt! I love my kids, but sometimes it feels like all I do is in vain. Should I marry my man? Or is this just too much to deal with for the rest of my life? We've been together for 3 years and the Mama Drama still upsets me.

2006-06-21 09:00:52 · 16 answers · asked by Lani 2

My ex-husband agreed to and signed our divorce decree. In that decree, it specifically states what I'm entitled to. I didn't ask for much. Just my personal belongings and my share of the house (he bought me out). Our divorce was final on December 16, 2005. I've contacted him multiple times and in different ways (phone, email, and family messengers). He will not respond and I'm still trying to get my things. We're talking pictures, my son's childhood drawings and toys, etc. He says he threw them away. My next step is to have the police department escort me to the property to retrieve my belongings. I live in a completely different state and hate to make the plans just to find out that he HAS thrown them away. Any thoughts, suggestions or past experiences? As a sidebar, our divorce was uncontested and we used the same attorney just to process the paperwork. It was completely amicable until he found out I met someone else (way after our divorce started).

2006-06-21 09:00:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

married 20 years. wife gave up about 8 years ago. I have been trying to get it back, but she dosn't care. Is it time for me to move on?

2006-06-21 08:51:34 · 21 answers · asked by Midnight_Rider 1

I dont think it is wrong to notice a good looking person on the street, i do however think that seeking women or men out on the internet to get off to is..... Shoe on the other foot.....Women seeks out nude pics of men on the internet is she cheating on her husband?

2006-06-21 08:48:48 · 29 answers · asked by eskyesmom 1

2006-06-21 08:40:22 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-06-21 08:39:16 · 9 answers · asked by Renae C 1

my aunts and cousiens says its to much pain to have a baby so why cant a man do it

2006-06-21 08:38:15 · 8 answers · asked by lilmizzfree 2

I have a new boyfriend and he thinks most marriages fail bc the wives are not okay with new sexual expierences i.e. 3 somes, so they go cheat. anyone in their right mind would NOT be okay with someone else touching who they love. Am I wrong with this? My other boyfriend who unfortunatly I broke up with a few weeks ago thinks that a couple is a couple not a 3 way thing. give me ur opinion.

2006-06-21 08:36:55 · 58 answers · asked by ♪♫jessy♫♪ 4

2006-06-21 08:32:28 · 9 answers · asked by Hillary R 2

2006-06-21 08:14:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-21 08:12:31 · 19 answers · asked by eskyesmom 1

2006-06-21 08:08:12 · 20 answers · asked by Barbie 1

im 20 he is 32 and it is not working help and i feel guilty for all this

2006-06-21 08:07:47 · 30 answers · asked by brid 1

It wouldn't be an issue, but he slept with her while we were dating. We worked it out and then got married. Even though he says he can't stand her, they see each other a few times a week because they have 2 kids. It gives me knots in my stomach even when they talk on the phone-about the kids. He says he is completely over her and is so in love with me, but I'm still going crazy with not being able to trust him!! Oh, he left HER and she still loves him and would take him back in a heartbeat...

2006-06-21 08:03:09 · 9 answers · asked by kimberly S 1

is this classed as being unfaithful?They have met but he has no idea its her,I say it is,how about you?

2006-06-21 08:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by learning the lesson 5

How can I change the way I talk to my husband?? Whenever I feel not right I will be yelling.. If he asked me more than one time, I will be mad so bad... He always said that "I am your husband, why you so mean to me? U don't ove me anymore..."

We have been dating for 2 yrs and married for 2 yrs... Should we suppost to be understand each other more.. or I am not loving him anymore... But I asked myself, "Am I love him, Still?" MY answer is "I still love him...." Help me please!~~

2006-06-21 08:01:20 · 4 answers · asked by SnoopyGal 1

This question is for rich or poor or young or old

2006-06-21 07:55:50 · 34 answers · asked by John P 2

2006-06-21 07:44:09 · 29 answers · asked by del-d 2

Mom's in Ohio seem to get custody and monetary considerations over father's. Beyond the crippling financial burden many Dads are left out of day to day life and often wrestle with limited or strained and infrequent interactions

2006-06-21 07:44:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-21 07:36:57 · 14 answers · asked by kashmiri b 1

When my dh and I first met, I had stopped smoking and he was a smoker. I started smoking again since we were together all the time. Before having our first child, I stopped smoking and so did he. Then he started again and so did I. I stopped prior to finding out I was pregnant w/ our second child and have not started back but he wouldn't stop. I'm seeing problems in our children's health and wonder if it's to do with the smoking. It's also causing a lot of problems in our marriage because I hate that he smokes. The smell makes me want to puke and this doesn't bother him one bit. He still wants to love all over me yet I'm disgusted by the smell. What can I do to get him to stop? Knowing it affects our children's health doesn't seem to bother him nor does the fact that it's messing with our relationship.

2006-06-21 07:36:18 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1