i was married 11 years before , i had 2 years without intimacy or sex! { red flag went up and i caught her cheating!}
i have been married almost 2 years we haven't had sex for a while! i talked to her about it and she thinks im putting the blame on her, im not !!i was never agressive!!{i do give her nylons and cute stuff i love on her!}
2006-06-21 09:54:52 · 8 answers · asked by paul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to talk to her and find out what's the problem. You're not going to get anywhere trying to gift your way out of this. You need to sit down and determine what is the problem. Two years with out sex is a very long time , maybe too long, If she doesn't want to have sex with you there are probably a lot of issues. Either work on your relationship or get out.
2006-06-21 10:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Plano G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been married 8 years and we swing from the ceiling fan regularly. There's low and high points. Sometimes one or both of you just don't feel all that "connected". Don't give up. Do things together that COULD lead to sex, but don't push for it. This way theres no pressure on anyone. Take a shower together or give her a massage. Cook her dinner or better yet, take her out. Summer's here... go hit a drive in movie, those are fun to make out at :) Good luck and happy humping.
2006-06-21 17:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by El 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is. What is it with you and 2 yrs. I don't know many men that would put up with not having sex for 2 yrs and married. It's time for counseling. Keep loving on her but get some counseling for the both of you.
2006-06-21 17:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try helping with dishes. Tell her that you'll clean the kitchen while she enjoys a nice long bath. Don't expect her to jump your bones the first time that you do this. It may take a couple of times. Make sure that you give her time alone to relax, I promise you it will pay off in the end.
2006-06-21 18:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Steph D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes plenty of it even after children but as said before there are ups and downs just keep at it but don't be pushy
2006-06-21 17:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by I wanna stay on maternity leave! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the older you get the better it gets.
2006-06-21 17:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by yo_010180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her ,she want to have her cake and eat it to
2006-06-21 17:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Simone D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh, yes.
2006-06-21 16:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋