How would you react if you discovered that your husband had installed a nanny cam to spy on you?

Answer 1

Install one in the shower before he uses it, install one behind the loo as well, then, sell tickets to the preview to every one in the street who enjoys comic horror. Tell him it's a footy match to be sure he's sitting there as well. Then scarper on the proceeds for a night out with the girls:-)

Answer 2

There is part of me that would give hima good show on the camera but mostly I think if he has a nanny cam on you then he may have other secrets as well, and I would point blank ask him why.... There is a trust issue it sounds and u need to find out why....

Answer 3

I would be beyond pissed because it interferes, if not violates, your constitutional right to privacy...Apparently he has issues with trust. If this is the case, you have to take a look at what you are doing that perhaps causes him to feel as if he can't trust you. Once you have made a determination, then if you have really searched your heart and ahve been honest with yourself and can say that you have not done anything to make him feel that way...then you can legitimately say that this is an issue that he needs to address ...... As his wife, you should help him thru this issue....Marriage is a partnership and you guys are in it together and for the long haul...remember that......

Answer 4

He doesn't trust you. Good news: now you know! Confront him, and find out what's going on.

There's an alternative possibility: he's got a sexual fetish for voyeurism. Before you confront him, consider this possibility and make up your mind whether you're okay with that or not.

One more possibility: he didn't do it. Is it a wireless camera, and have you had someone (a neighbor? a local handyman?) in the house? Make sure you're certain your husband did it before confronting him, or you'll have nothing to back it up with if he says "it wasn't me."

Answer 5

Id be really interested to know what a nanny cam does and how you found out if you are talking about yourself. I wouldn't be suprised, some men can be controlling

Answer 6

He has some serious security issues and is a control freak. AS for the basis of his distrust, can come from many places, but don't ignore the fact that we always think our mate is doing what WE are doing!!!! You might want to pay closer attention to what is going on in his life. I know I would not tolerate actions like this....that is going way too far.

Answer 7

I would hit the roof! What reason could he possibly have for doing that? It shows he doesn't trust you, at the very least. Does he have reason to feel like that? I'd look into what's going on in your marriage right now, something is definitely wrong here.

Answer 8

That is freaky! Does he have some reason for not trusting you? If not, then he must have some deep insecurity issue. You need to confront him about it. If he does have some reason to not trust you, however, such as cheating on him in the past, then you really can't say anything about it.

Answer 9

thats interesting i had nt thought about the fact that technology has advanced so much that everything we now do is not private.....if your husband has done this then challenge why hes done it......thats if you have no reason for him doing it...if u do i think u need to book a hotel room!....if you dont have any reason then you know what they say guilty mind and all......if people are cheating they naturaly think or want the other to be doing it too...maybe its to try and justify themselfs

Answer 10

Wow,it's going to boost my ego,so much my husband thinks i m magnetic,even after marriage, that he fears insecurities!Well,but on the second thought,i would be hurt,angry and weep for not trusting me.