How can I change the way I talk to my husband?? Whenever I feel not right I will be yelling.. If he asked me more than one time, I will be mad so bad... He always said that "I am your husband, why you so mean to me? U don't ove me anymore..."
We have been dating for 2 yrs and married for 2 yrs... Should we suppost to be understand each other more.. or I am not loving him anymore... But I asked myself, "Am I love him, Still?" MY answer is "I still love him...." Help me please!~~
2006-06-21 08:01:20 · 4 answers · asked by SnoopyGal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you may have depression ... this can cause you to feel like everything is pointless and you can get so frustrated that the smallest thing will set you off. i would suggest that you talk to your family doctor
2006-06-27 15:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by canadian_beaver_77 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i used to do that too! instead of bringing up a point for discussion i wud just start yelling it instead! thiss got very bad and he started feeling like he was ALWAYS doing something wrong and being the bad guy when really he's not..u gotta learn to pick your battles only argue about important things and let the little things go...dont yell when u speak to him he deserves respect! even if u have to write down what u wanna say and just give him a letter..you still love him and he still loves u and thats great but u shud stop doing this before he starts feeling really bad! if he's a good guy then he's gonna feel bad for this.good luck!
2006-06-21 08:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE NICE. He is your husband, give him the same respect you want back. Stop yelling it is so childish. Aif you are asking yourself questions of love, that is sad, you either do or you don't. Good luck.
2006-06-21 08:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by xwasanasss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that you need anger management classes. if you truly loved him you would not treat him that way. one day he is going to walk away from you if you dont stop and get help...good luck
2006-06-21 09:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋