I dont think it is wrong to notice a good looking person on the street, i do however think that seeking women or men out on the internet to get off to is..... Shoe on the other foot.....Women seeks out nude pics of men on the internet is she cheating on her husband?
2006-06-21 08:48:48 · 29 answers · asked by eskyesmom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People can say, "There's nothing wrong with it" and "it's alright as long as it doesn't hurt anyone" all that they want but, in fact, these people are just putting their head in the sand and/or talking out their ****.
Porn makes the woman feel insecure, creates an imaginary world to which no woman, or man, could measure up. It erodes the intimacy that should exist between a wife and her husband and, eventually, destroys the marriage.
If the husband would direct his efforts towards sharing his desires with his wife while, at the same time, being considerate and pleasing towards her not only would he not need porn anymore but he would be leading a much happier, full filling life at the same time.
2006-06-21 09:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Bud 5 · 13⤊ 3⤋
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2016-07-19 16:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless it has turned into a complusion to the point that it effects her relationship with her husband no. Porn can be nice to spice things up in the bedroom a little bit once in a while. The nice part about self-stimulation is that is our own. As a man or a woman, if you need some visual assistance for that there is no issue.
Let's use sex toys as an comparable example. It has become very socially acceptable for women to use toys (I am not anti-toys, just stating a fact) while masterbating. Is it worse for a man to use graphic images or video than for a woman to use sex toys? There is definitely more physical stimulation from the toy, but in the end isn't it essentially the same thing? Just an aid to self-gratification?
2006-06-21 08:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lubers25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everyone. What is cheating for one couple may not be cheating to another. If you know what your doing will result in a negative response from your spouse, then it's betrayal. If you can't tell them about it or do it right in front of them, then it's wrong. The decisions you make while you're married affect another person, not just you. You have to be careful that you don't intentionally hurt them.
2006-06-21 13:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at porn is not cheating. Trying to pick up a man or woman on the internet is cheating but just friendly chatting is not. That's just my opinion.
2006-06-21 08:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by charlie_the_carpenter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a range of of girls have this difficulty it type of feels, yet particularly its truly a remember of time before each and every thing variations for them. youthful girls are very romantically minded and picture that they must be all you want. If that became the case there might want to be no porn. you should comprehend that from 18-30 adult males will take although they could get (consisting of a greased up hand), and from 30-40 adult males can somewhat save up with the demands of their women folk. in the experience that your relationship is severe and lengthy lasting you would possibly want to attempt this tactic. tell her that you'll no longer help being a guy, and that the purely excellent element she needs is a guy with a foul sex stress. recommend that if she places our two times an afternoon, daily...you'll provide up gazing porn and masturbating...in the different case she might want to imagine of it as a starting to be procedure that is needed on your healthy sexual progression. And that you'll use those classes to study the thanks to develop into the perfect lover accessible. also be careful which flix you teach her. imagine "sensual" instead of "hardcore"...there are a range of of particularly exciting woman oriented porn videos available that you would possibly want to rejoice with consisting of out her feeling degraded.
2016-10-20 11:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is only cheating if you believe it is cheating. I feel that "cheating" only spices up the relationship. Kind of like owning 2 cars instead of one. With one you may get bored with driving it all the time where as if you have 2 then you don't get bored as easy.
2006-06-21 08:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by arabslayer34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a loving relationship, there should be no internet surfing for others nor porno. Seeing someone walk down the street is different and normal. If the two of you share in the porno then that is something different, but if it is behind their back, it's cheating.
2006-06-21 08:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have established a "no porn" rule. If you have to look to other men or women to feel aroused, imagine the effect it could have on your spouse's level of confidence.
2006-06-21 08:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she's not cheating just keeping her hormones in tact she's not touching them it's like when men watch porn they are not cheating are they just forfilling a healthy sexual appetite that's all.
2006-06-21 09:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋