From the time you start dating, how long is to long to wait to get married. 2 years? 4? 5? 10 !!!
2006-06-21 17:45:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no right amount of time. My husband and i got married on our third date. It's been 13 years and four children and we are renewing our vows on our anniversary this August. Some couple are together five years or more then get married and seperate in six months. It all depends on the relationship, the marriage and the amount of love between you too that makes a marriage work. Good luck hun
2006-06-21 17:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. I was 16 when I started dating my husband. We got married when I was 20. If you're 25 I'd say 2 years to 5 years. and the older you get the shorter the time. Especially if you want kids...and you don't agree with having them outside of marriage. but I would say between 5 and 7 years is ok...after that...is way too long. but it depends on your age and if your personal feelings of marriage and what it means.
2006-06-21 17:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely no correct answer for this question. Each person, their feelings, and their parthner's feelings are diffrent, and never the same!!! If you are worried about this question, maybe try to stop thinking about getting hitched so soon. As it seems that maybe you want to be married, but too worried about what others thinks. If so worried about other's opinions your marriage won't last anyways. Because You have to think for yourself. If you've had sex allready, what does it really matter now about marriage?
2006-06-21 18:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by spawanee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say minimum one to two years and anything after that is fine as long as you really know each other and are ready to settle down and commit for a life time.
2006-06-22 01:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no time limit....you marry when you both feel that the time is right.....maybe you should get engaged and have a long engagement see how things go, and give the actual MARRIAGE thing some time, also this would make it an easier transition.
2006-06-21 18:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by ~Princess*Bonkers~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been seven here.
I'm still hoping I will have the nerve to do it. So much drama. I just told my mother last week that I don't know wether I'll say I do until I walk down the isle because everyone is making my life hell!
Bridezilla has nothing on familymemberzillas............
2006-06-21 17:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait about 4 or 5 MAXIMUM.
2006-06-21 18:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is an individual, therefore everyone waits at different rates. I myself feel that you should wait at least a year.
2006-06-21 18:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say 2years, but i have been w my man for 7years and we are not married yet.. so it depends on how long are you willing to wait for marriage w this person?
2006-06-21 18:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by ms janice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is too long as far as your loving is concerned.
date till u drop him dry & dead for anyone else to date him.
He will marry you !!!
2006-06-21 19:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by rakeshscdc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋