My mom and dad are fighting because of a missing ring! And it's the ring they used during their marriage! What do I do?
2006-06-21 18:23:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And... I didn't lose it!!! Seriously! I just don't want to see them fighting all the time.
2006-06-22 19:52:35 · update #1
help them look for it and tell them that they can always buy another ring but you cant buy or put a price on their love
2006-06-21 18:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by cutie 2 · 12⤊ 0⤋
Well there is really nothing that you can do to make it better... Maybe help them look for it.. I mean I don't see the reason for fighting over a ring..i would be upset but fighting..i mean i know it mean's alot to them..but how did it get lost..did they go over every step after the place they think they lost it.. I hope they find the ring and stop arguing best of luck
2006-06-21 18:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by big10pointers_baby_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first ring for 5 years then lost it in a second while playing baseball.
my wife was upset as she felt I failed the marriage.
It's crazy he needs to say he did everything passable to find it but if he can suggest they-buy a new on next time the fa mi,goes away on a really nice vacation.
Make it a family special perchase,
Good Luck!!
2006-06-21 18:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind them that they love each other and that a ring is not the important thing that hold the marriage together it is them sticking together throught the hard times and in the good they loved each other with the ring they can love each other with out the ring best of luck hun and hope they find it
2006-06-21 18:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm sure you've helped them look for it, and that certainly hasn't helped, but why don't you try getting them to both speak respectfully to each other and as a family, brainstorm and organize a way to find it, or, if it was stolen, a list of people that have recently been in the house.
2006-06-21 18:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by xtwilightpassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if its your dad that lost the ring try to get to know how he feels and explain it to your mom, because this works best 4 angry moms. IF your mom lost the ring explain to your dad how arguing will get you nowhere and remind him that this is the woman he loves.
2006-06-21 18:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my mom and her "wife" got in a fight about my moms wedding ring and i literally mean FIGHT, i had to call the cops and they split. but it was a bs relationship hopefully ur parents love isnt based on a ring, dont worry too much
2006-06-21 18:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by DownWithTheSickness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, fighting over a ring is kinda childish I think.
but, still, tell them that they shudnt fight and destroy their relationship over a measly slice of gold.
And then help them find it.
Well, hope what I said makes use to yah!!
good luck girl!!..^_^
Yours,
Agent Jake
2006-06-21 18:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hel them see it is only a ring. its just a material object not a true showing of their love for each other. and look for it as well
2006-06-21 18:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by slipout2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that they will find it eventually and it is nothing to fight about. Tell them if they can't find it then save up for a new one. Don't panic.
2006-06-21 18:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by aarlover13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋