What do you think? She's a liar always has been. He totally denies living with her and isn't her boyfriend. I'm in WV and he's in MS and I haven't seen him in 5 months. It sux.
2006-06-21 17:01:05 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Has your man always been up front and honest with you? What reason would he have for lying to you and keeping you hanging on? How often do you talk? My cousin is going through a similar problem (though not married) and I asked her what she would do to move on if he was lying - though with this particular guy it would be a shock. She replied that she would go out with her friends and socializing soooooo. . . going out with friends and meeting new people is not cheating. If you meet some other guy you like more in the process then it was meant to be.
If this girl knew about you why would SHE still be with him? Sounds like she may be trying to start problems so she can have a shot. Then again, why is he friendly with this "crazy liar"? You should know his nature well enough to answer these questions yourself, but I understand it never hurts to get a second opinion.
Best of luck with everything.
2006-06-21 17:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jill M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a sticky situation but like I have said quite a few dozen times - No matter the situation, a good trusting wife always stands behind her husband.
Now I know there are situation like "repeat offenders" but let us assume that you are in a happy trusting marriage.
First ask yourself if you trust him. I know this is a funny question to be asking considering a marriage is one of the most trusting relationship a person can ever have but knowing the answer to this can help a lot more. If you do trust him then and the woman calls again, just shrug her off and let her know you will need more than the word of a stranger to get you suspicious. The fact that she has always been a liar does not make it any better for her case. Just remember that your trust in him is the most important thing. Everything else should be easy.
2006-06-22 00:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him. I cannot be in a relationship where there is doubts and no trust... A man who has a wife needs to make sure that he is there to take care of her and it seems that he is not doing that as you have not seem him in five months., that is not a marriage.. I would have ended it just for the time not spent together., I mean, I personally, need a husband to be with me and be a partner... For that, I would have stayed single...
2006-06-22 05:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part of MS? I think you all need to live together as a married family. Us southern girls are raised hearing "if you are not in the bed by your man at night someone else is"
2006-06-22 00:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your husband. Remember those vows you two exchanged? Trust him, have faith in him. Plus you said his friend is a liar. Come on, common sense should come into play here.
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-22 00:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmmmm why are yall living so far from one another is my question, if your husband and wife? I think this could be true, too many miles between the two of you. I would be worried if I were you.
2006-06-22 01:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what is going on, I can guarantee that she is NOT his GF now.!! And she could well be suffering from a case of wishful thinking. What she is doing is taking a short cut to getting your husband. I don't think it is going to work, do you?
2006-06-22 00:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a surprise trip.
2006-06-22 00:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like this woman has problems in my opion get them both face to face and watch . actions speak where words dont. , my opion?
2006-06-22 02:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a long enough time for someone else to hop into his bed/life ...check out.
2006-06-22 00:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jay Emm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋