Me and my husband have been married for almost 3 years. We don't have sex very often but when we do it seems like when he uses his fingers on me i get more stimulation than i do with his penis and no his fingers are not bigger than his penis i don't understand why i get more out of his fingers....Anyone have any idea?
2006-06-21 18:31:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
probably because womens turn ons and what feels good changes all the time. Sometimes I love when my husband goes down on me and sometimes I don't. Sometimes I like certain positions and sometimes I don't. Women are always changing. Also, if you have gained weight or he has...sometimes he just can't get as far inside of you as he use to be able to...at least it seems that way sometimes. so maybe his fingers can get where he use to be able to but can't anymore....**that whole concept is not proven and I've never heard it anywhere...just a thought/idea....from personal experience...**
2006-06-21 18:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its really elementary. The hand is more flexible than a stiff penis and the hand is much more subtle/sensitive to every knook. Your husband is able to feel and sense and touch with all his fine motor skills and finer sensations and unlike his penis he is never in fear of losing it because fingers never get turned on. Thusly his focus at this point is more on pleasing you. As soon as there is penetration he stops thinking about you and then there are two paths. First, if he want to ride for a while he will think of baseball Second, if he want to be outta there, he is thinking only of climax. The first one will slow it down the second speed it up but both are void of any thoughts of you. SO, enjoy the fingers as long as he is gentle and focus on being manipulated. It will curl your toes over and over. That is something you will never get with a stiffy
2006-06-22 01:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by art_fart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be because he stimulates you more with them especially if he is doing oral with it. The penis is just that and no fingers or tounge with them and if he is using one finger he can use the others with it to stimulate you as well.....
2006-06-22 07:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I can tell you why. The majority of women orgasm by clitoral stimulation, NOT vaginal (although a small majority does, but it's mainly clitoral). There is nothing wrong with you getting more stimulation by his fingers, you're actually in the highest percentile!
2006-06-22 01:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers before mine explain the why but let me add this, ask him to do both at the same time(penis in finger out) it is the bomb, especially if your man is coordinated!!!!
2006-06-24 00:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His fingers are more flexible and can reach spots that his penis probably can't maybe because of the angle. Try some different possisions when you are doing it to achieve the perfect orgasim.
2006-06-22 07:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by cabbiegrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he can move them different than his penis can and it's easier to reach the g spot with a finger.
2006-06-22 01:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him rub your clitorus ( i dont know how to spell it) while his penis is inside you. I wouldnt say there is anything wrong with that. But for me the sex is always better when my wife and i finish at the same time. And enjoy it at the same time
2006-06-22 01:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is touching the sevensavate spot with his fingers as for the other well wish you the best . my opion?
2006-06-22 01:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all I can say is "ENJOY" what you have, before you have nothing then.
Cheers!
2006-06-22 01:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by *Darling*Detective* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋