She really likes to do things that I like to do and we have alot of fun together. We are not sexual, but we both very much want to be. Please help!
2006-06-21 18:15:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't fall out of love with someone you decide to not love that person...you made a conscious decision to stop loving your wife and decided to love someone else. See this is the problem in this world...if it is to hard to try to fix something replace it or don't deal with it. You married this person and you made a commitment. Marriage is not suppose to be easy...you need to work on it and deal with what comes your way head-on. As for this other person...she knows that your married, where is her morals and values? If she choose to get involved with a married man what does that tell you about her? Seriously re-evaluate your marriage and seek professional counseling, not just for yourself but for the sake of your marriage(family), so that you can restore your marriage and commitment.
2006-06-21 19:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by psylocke 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Analize the situation. What made you fall in love with your wife & why do you love this other woman? After doing this, THINK. Are you sure that this other woman is one you love OR is it possible she is just a friend OR is it more of a lust thing?
You made a commitment when you got married. If you cross a line, you are making the decision to break your word and tear up something you will never get back.
What does this say to the other woman about you?
2006-06-22 00:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by cabbiegrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is stop expecting a bunch of strangers to be your conscience.
If you honestly don't know the right thing to do, then it probably doesn't make the slightest difference WHAT you do, because the people around you are going to be hurt either way. And so will you.
2006-06-21 18:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to either break it off with her and work things out with your wife or you need to be honest with your wife and let her go by divorcing her before you have any more to do with this new woman. But i highly recommend you do the first and find marriage counseling to help work on your marriage now.
2006-06-22 00:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are obviously problems in your marriage if you fell in love with someone else. You have to decide whether or not you want to work on repairing your relationship with your wife or not. If not, you need to at least be fair to her and end it before you begin another relationship.
2006-06-21 18:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are married...you got married becouse you love that person. you dont love two people. love only comes 1s and you already picked the person you whanted to be with.. if things are not going good work things out do things that brought you two together..
the other person knows your married she had no right in talking to you and cousing you to get confuse...think about it..if you really love the person you found you would already toled your wife i whant a divorse.. you havent meaning you dont even knoe if you are realy in love with her...in the other had you love you wife if not you would not had gotten married...you are married you mad a promise so try to keep it dont do something that you are going to regret!
2006-06-21 18:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by nataly_sr03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have ur wife to get in contact with me and that way while ur out having a fling with the new piece of meat i will be tenderizing her meat. that way everybody is happy. let her know that i'm very oral and give a mean massage. look forward to hearing from you/ur wife real soon as i am eagerly awaiting
2006-06-21 23:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by naztman2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better make sure this isnt one of those things were the grass looks greener on the otherside. I say break all contact with the other women and get into couciling.
2006-06-21 18:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with the person you're in love with. Follow your heart. Don't waste your life with the wrong person. Take a leap of faith. Goodluck with your new love.
2006-06-21 18:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are supposed to be commited to your wife and if she is your wife than sure you had to be in love with her at sometime before my suggestion is to try and find a way to get back those feelings with her.
2006-06-21 18:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋