Marriage & Divorce - 14 June 2006

2006-06-14 12:08:28 · 6 answers · asked by outlaw0009 2

2006-06-14 12:07:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-14 12:02:39 · 17 answers · asked by lucy goosy 1

Just like on "Windfall" on NBC ....if you won the lottery today would you stay with your current gf/bf/wife/husband? Why or why not?

2006-06-14 11:59:46 · 25 answers · asked by wyldfyre 3

My husband and I still love each other but I cheated I was the biggest mistake of my life. I filed for divorce so that I would not feel guily everyday. One hour with a stanger has ruined my life what would you do. He has no clue I cheated. I also have made out with a few if his friends I a a terrible person. we were young when we got married before I was out of HS. what do I do now

2006-06-14 11:56:21 · 23 answers · asked by girl 1

2006-06-14 11:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

No newlyweds please...anyone can be happily married for 5 or so years....let's hear from the people who have past the 7 year itch mark

2006-06-14 11:46:59 · 19 answers · asked by scooter 1

I have had a great 5 year marrage and a big one hour mistake with another man

2006-06-14 11:43:58 · 50 answers · asked by girl 1

my sister was with her block for 5 years and he asked her to marry him. any way a year later they were married then 18 monthes later he got up 1 morning and said i dont think i want this any more i dont think i love you i wasnt ready to get married then just left and never came back or offered any explanation. now shes going through a divorce and she dosnt even know where he lives

2006-06-14 11:43:41 · 24 answers · asked by iminlove 2

see, i'm in a relationship with a married man. he's been legally seperated for a year now and in the process of divorce. we've lived together for a year and a half now. he comes home from work every night. we spend a lot of time together. i have the code to his cell phone and we talk about almost anything but lately our sex life has changed. he wants to have relations more frequent and some times it's hard to keep him satified. we have always had a great sex life but three times a day lately got me puzzled. is it just me or is he with someone else?

2006-06-14 11:41:34 · 13 answers · asked by slimchuckie 3

2006-06-14 11:36:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an affair while i was married. my husband didn't know about it. We got divorce and I move in with my boy friend. we are so inlove. while waiting for my divorce to be final. but i wasn't ready to settle so i moved out to my BF place. went back to my ex husband place; live as a couple. but we're divorce. then one day my boy friend called my ex husband and he told everything that his not supposed to say. i thought that i can trust him. by not telling everybody about me. so i broke up with him. i know i'm not perfect & i made mistake. but i was wrong to give all that trust. now my ex husband & my ex boy friend want me back...

my question is my ex bf still inlove with me & we still talk but he doesn't know that i live with my ex husband. what should i do? I'm still inlove with him but deep inside i am afraid. thank you for you time reading my problem...

2006-06-14 11:36:08 · 7 answers · asked by Dance06 1

I have been married for 7 years. My husband is always grumpy. Doesn't act like he loves/likes me. Shows no affection. Constantly yelling. Then out of the blue he will be nice and loving. Im so confused. I need advice!

2006-06-14 11:35:14 · 18 answers · asked by Shannon M 1

I have been feeling like I am not good enough for my husband. It is like he is ashamed to be seen with me. Whenever I ask him to go somewhere with me he has a excuse but if one of his friends ask him to go to that same place he is out the door. When I ask him if he is ashamed of me he always says no but I still cant shake this feeling. I am a very attractive woman so its not my looks. Sometimes I think that he deserves to be with somebody that he is proud of somebody who he wants to be seen with. I just feel like I am not good enough for him. What should I do I really need some advice. Please dont put me down I do enough of that myself

2006-06-14 11:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4

How do you write women so well?
This is from Jack Nicholson in As Good as it Gets.
Every guy I talk to says their S.O. or wife "keeps score" incorrectly and unfairly.

Real Examples:

-"You didn't notice my new perfume last week, so you have to clean the entire garage Saturday"

-"Why are men so concerned with how much money they're going to make after college?"

-"You need to pay 2/3 of the bills but you also have to do 1/2 the cleaning, childcare, and most of the home maintenance...because I can't stand you thinking of me as a housewife."

Is there a biological reason for this? Is there a more nebulous reason, like having to be the one that gets pregnant/has menses? Is this women getting back at (nice) men for past oppression (by jerks)?
Are there some nebulous ways that women are "better" than men which might justify this?

What's the outlook for this problem?

2006-06-14 11:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-14 11:25:46 · 28 answers · asked by joy_rudra 1

my husband attended a bachelor's party and since then, whenever he's with friends who attended the party as well would always joke around and say "switch... switch." i know it has something to do with the strippers... i'm not instigating or something... i'm just curious. any idea?

2006-06-14 11:23:51 · 7 answers · asked by tangerine 2

I have been married for 5 years and is was very young when I got married before I even graduated HS. I have a great husband he takes good care of me. We live over seas and I have gone home twice to see friends and family. that first time I went home I was almost raped I never told my spouse. This past time I went home I cheated on him with someone I hardly knew ,every time i went home I was very flirty and kissed several of his friends. I know that this Is terable but I feel like I am missing out. I want to date and be young. I told him I want to get divorced because I know that He is going to find out I messed everything up. what should I do. I can't tell him but I do not want to loss him. We are know in the divorce process and I want him and I want to date other peole what would you do. I feel like if i tell him it will be the end of are friendship. He does not want a divorce should I tell him what I have done.

2006-06-14 11:22:41 · 17 answers · asked by girl 1

Often when my husband and I are making love I stop in the middle.... This is either because something is physically hurting inside, or something is bothering me mentally (my husband is in the Marine Corp,and has Anger/temper issue's). My husband always sets things up nice music, candle...but it gets ruined with my stopping. My husband gets all excited, and turned on and then he just has to stop flat cold because of me. My question: Do guys loose respect for a woman if this happens to many times to them? Will they just stop being romantic altogether? Do men loose feelings/love toward their parnter if this happens often?

2006-06-14 11:18:06 · 12 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

My husband and I live with another young couple as roommates. I have been suspecting for a long time that my friend's husband is cheating on her and she knows herself. My friend is sort of in denial right now because he'll come home every night at 2am from work. His job is a 24/7 type of job but he comes home later than he should because my own husband used to have that job! My husband and I have talked to my friend many and many times, about how she needs to show and let him know that he just can't run her over! She just doesn't seem to do anything and I think its that she doesn't have any self-worth! I recently found a picture of another woman naked in my friend's husband's bag under the sink. I was looking for some razors and came across this. I know it was my friend's husband's bag because his stuff was in it! Would should I do? Should I tell her what I found? Last night they were just beginning to work on their problems!?

2006-06-14 11:13:21 · 22 answers · asked by ♥Lily♥ 3

When you've been with someone for about 4 years and the relationship seems perfect, suddenly you break up. He told me that he doesnt want a relationship right now and its too much stress. However, i get text messages and sad looks in his face whenever i see him. What's up with that. Do you think he'll call me once he realizes what hes lost. Or is this just a case of wanting to be out with the boys type of thing? help- im heartbroken. Not only that- we made plans together and this is so sudden. You're probably thinking about why i posted this into the pregnancy board, but theres all types of women who've been through stuff there- please help me. What should i do? We were engaged?

2006-06-14 11:09:58 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica S 1

I rhink it would be hot to see my wife with another man. To have me and another man together would be awesome. How do I ask her?

2006-06-14 11:05:07 · 16 answers · asked by Greg R 1

2006-06-14 11:03:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate doing it in the morning. I'm more of a night person. I go to sleep late due to taking care of the house. I hate it when he insists in having sex in the morning. I'd just hate to hurt his feeling if I tell him I don't like it. It's more that I'm very sleepy because I go to sleep late. I clean up after all my kids and him of cousre, cook, wash, clean etc. It's a hard job, due to that I work full time also. I just don't want to hurt him, what is a perfect way to let him know without hurting his feeling? Oh and he LOVES doing it in the morning.

2006-06-14 10:58:55 · 26 answers · asked by yo_010180 2

I was married for 14 years, most of them unhappy and controlled. We had a bitter divorce and custody battle that never ended, even once the papers were signed. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 years. We even own a house together. Marriage however has not been something Ive been interested in. When I think of getting married I get nauseaus and light headed.
He's a nice guy who can be a real jerk and the honeymoon has been over for years but, I never even imagine my future without him in it.
I have the chance to leave a job I HATE to take a job I will hopefully love, the downside is the kids and I will lose our health insurance. If I married my long time boyfriend we would be covered under his. I keep telling myself that getting out of owning a house together is harder than getting out of a marriage and that its just a piece of paper but still thinking about it makes me physically ill.
Suggestions?

2006-06-14 10:55:55 · 16 answers · asked by vacca33 3

and, is it the same? I made myself get over my boyfriend of 7 years last year in about 6 months. Then, he got his stuff together & we are back together, for about 6 months now, but it doesn't feel like love anymore (on my end); he treats me much better, and I know he loves me, but once you fall out of love, can you really ever fall in love with that person again?

2006-06-14 10:50:14 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6

My cousin just got married in April. Currently she lives with her husband and his family. She says that her husband's parents are very traditional and that she isn't happy with the marriage. She didn't tell me much else.

Basically, what I've suggested is to talk to her husband about this issue. Also, I've suggested marriage counseling or talking to her family and friends. However, she's embarrassed to talk to people about this. What else can I do to help her?

I don't support divorce unless it's absolutely necessary (like with abuse); there is way too much divorce these days.

2006-06-14 10:46:09 · 6 answers · asked by King Yellow 4

my ex and i split up in march. i broke up with her because she wouldnt get her ex out of our lives. we were together for 2 years. during the relationship she wanted to marry. i wasnt ready for that in my life. recently while in calfornia during army training we talked everyday and wanted to work on us. we still talk daily and even sleep together. when i was getting ready to come home she told me she is quitting her job and moving with her bro. the nite i returned she said she wanted to move with me and get married. she had me propose to her that nite. i did. a few days later she said she is still going to move but needs healing time. she said she wants to work on us and get back together. her b day is coming up this week. do i get the ring? does she really want to get together again? if so why would she move? she also said she doesnt plan on dating. she likes to go out and have fun. im worried she will meet someone. she told me not to date. should i? how do i know she is being honest.

2006-06-14 10:36:55 · 24 answers · asked by jlb421 1

My husband is being very mean since the doctor put him on muscle relaxers for his back. He screams and cusses at me for the least little thing. He is usually a very happy, joking, laid back guy. I KNOW he needs the medication. How do I tough this out?

2006-06-14 10:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by angelpockets 4

2006-06-14 10:29:15 · 55 answers · asked by ? 4