Are there any happy married people out there? or are you miserable?

Question

No newlyweds please...anyone can be happily married for 5 or so years....let's hear from the people who have past the 7 year itch mark

Answer 1

14 years. Happy most days. But everyone has a bad day, and sometimes life throws you curves. People grow and change daily the key for us is growing together and trying to stay on the same tracks.

Answer 2

I am not saying that I'm miserable or i am happily married, my married is perfect sometimes sad sometimes happy (that's what the marriage life is) you cant be just miserable or just happy always other wise you are not married.

To get married is to live-in with different people than you (your partner) means you will have to learn about human behavior, and from there you will have to get conflict and then sad or misunderstanding and then fight or argue and then cry (that's normal) and on the other hand the good side is your partner will understand you by those argue or conflict, you both will know what you don't like or what you like, the purposed being married is to learn each other attitude, each other needs and you will have to learn again and again cos sometimes people are change.

If you never have an argue or even conflict with your partner, that's mean you have a boring marriage/relationship life, in the marriage life you have to put some spices to learn about you and your partner.

Answer 3

I am very happily married and not miserable at allI i have been married almost 7 years and together with her for about 8... I love it and her more every day! We have a great marriage and relationship and i would not trade it for anything..... Marriage and love is what you make of it... You choose whether to be happy in your marriage or not and whether you want to work at it or not... It is all about choices!

Answer 4

I have been with my husband (boyfriend then) for about 13 years and then we got married about 3 years now- we have 2 beautiful kids together and some days great and some days----- OH MY GAWD___BAD. But we both love each other and have stuck to each others sides for almost 16 years- does that count? We still need to work on our relationship everyday- but worth it.

Answer 5

Well, I'm gay, but we've been together for 12 years. When I don't want to kill him we're pretty good. He's a keeper I guess.

Actually, it's way better than dating. You aren't afraid to keep each other in line. You build on each other's strengths and help with the other's weaknesses.

What comes along with that is sometimes the fact that the other knows how to push your buttons, but that is an odd occurance. Mostly it is just nice to have someone to hang out with who thinks like you.

Uh-oh, my pizza is ready. Gotta run. :)

Answer 6

Yes. Me and my husband just celebrated our 25th anniversary on June 6th and we're very happy. My husband gives me a kiss and tells me he loves me every time he leaves the house and when he returns. We still have a very active sex life too.(3 to 4 times a week)We've raised two kids and are now enjoying 2 grandkids. We havn't had a perfect life but at no time have we ever stopped loving each other.

Answer 7

10 years this July 5th. Wouldn't want to be with anyone else..though wouldn't mind having some time with Kate Beckinsale...siiiiigh. Seriously, when asked, my answer is always "very happily married," never simply "married." Does that answer your question?

Answer 8

I'm totally happily married, it's been six years, but no doubts we'll get over the seven year itch.

Answer 9

I'm miserable. We have been married for 11 years & this past year is really the first one that I have had no joy in.

Answer 10

I have been happily married for 11 yrs now...My husband is the love of my life!