When you've been with someone for about 4 years and the relationship seems perfect, suddenly you break up. He told me that he doesnt want a relationship right now and its too much stress. However, i get text messages and sad looks in his face whenever i see him. What's up with that. Do you think he'll call me once he realizes what hes lost. Or is this just a case of wanting to be out with the boys type of thing? help- im heartbroken. Not only that- we made plans together and this is so sudden. You're probably thinking about why i posted this into the pregnancy board, but theres all types of women who've been through stuff there- please help me. What should i do? We were engaged?
2006-06-14 11:09:58 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A guy wouldn't break up with you if he was really into you. His sad looks and text messages are just a way for him to keep you in his back pocket.
2006-06-14 11:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just spend some time alone by yourself. Think about what happen. It could be that he was too young to be in a commitment right now but at the same time he just really liked you. Its pretty hard. But the ball is in his court. If he's ready to be serious with you, he has to let go of his single friends, his freedom to do whatever like clubs and things by himself. But if he doesn't want to be with you, don't sweat it! There are other guys. Then again, do not beg him to get back with you or he will think you're desperate even though you just love him and are confused. Just think it over and even speak to a counselor. Good luck!
2006-06-14 11:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have been sudden to you, but I will bet he has been looking for a way out. AS for the sad looks, he is just trying to keep you hanging on. Don't let him, get on with your life...there are lots of new faces hooked to lots of new people out there. Find someone who is a little more mature and will act like it. Your 'ex' (that is what he is, for sure) wants out and has gotten out. Good luck
2006-06-14 11:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a month, then decide if hes good enough 4 you. dont go crawlin back to him , he,ll love that.!!! let him come back to YOU. if he dosnt, then youll know hes not the one. ITS HARD BUT ACT LIKE YOUR NOT BOTHERED, EVEN IF YOU ARE. if he wants you back make him do all the work. if he dosent want you, dont show him how upset you are. theres a real man 4 u out there!!
2006-06-14 11:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by lod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to say that he might have cheated. I was in the EXACT situation and that was why. The sad looks were guilt (in my situation) Keep your head up and hang in there. I hope that I am wrong! Best of luck to you!
2006-06-14 11:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by PatNickiNe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see where he is coming from. He just may come back around to you someday... Be patient and see but give him his space again but dont stop living keep on going and date others.
2006-06-14 11:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time.....maybe he needs to cool down and sort things out on his own....when he's ready he'll come back.
2006-06-14 11:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋