Marriage & Divorce - 14 June 2006

Iam 24 been married for going on 5 years he cheated on me with mutual friend who is 40 with 7 kids lives from hotel to hotel has nothing going for her. He Is also my sons father I work come home to be a house wife but he still did this I don't understand

2006-06-14 19:08:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-14 18:59:54 · 10 answers · asked by human 1

why yes and why no? would you do it again? did it turned out good or bad?


do not report my question because I am not insulting or being gross I just want Ideas for a debate.Be adults

2006-06-14 18:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-14 18:36:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few months after dating my boyfriend i found out that when he would get around his buddies he would do drugs, cocaine! Well not being one to stay in a relationship like that i left him. When he came back asking if we could be together, i laid it out and told him that if it were to happn he would have to show me that he was not into the drug thing anymore. And he did, he didn't hang out with "the crowd" anymore, he would stay home, and you know basically did everything right to prove to me that it was just a "thing". 3 months later i decided to let him back in my life. Now we are 3 years into the relationship and we are doing great. but now we are starting to make new friends. Everytime he goes out EVEN next door to our neighbors house i feel very paranoid that he would start up again! He hasn't given me any reason to believe that he has gone back into that but i feel still feel very paranoid! How can i give him the benifit of the doubt without feeling as if i'm being made a fool?

2006-06-14 18:22:42 · 16 answers · asked by andi 1

my husband said his boss was messing around with the new girl (18, blond, cute). This is the same girl i suspected him of cheating with a few monthes earlier, he confessed he didn't actually cheat but had a "crush" on her. around that time we were having a lot of problems (i had just miscarried and lost my job). I think he was a coward to threaten to leave me and think about cheating when i was vulnerable. but anyway...my problem is how do i forgive him??? he said he was depressed and he's sorry now but i'm afraid he would do it again. how do i trust him again and should i?

2006-06-14 18:17:12 · 23 answers · asked by confused mom 4

2006-06-14 18:14:09 · 11 answers · asked by Eldha'sfather 2

2006-06-14 18:14:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do women cheat?
better yet why is it that when ever there is the slightest change in a relationship women think " he must be cheating", i mean us as men we have our moods and days some better then others that affect our relationships, but when woman tries to have her man "he must be cheating". What is with the double standard can someone explain it to a brother

2006-06-14 18:12:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont want her up everyday but 1or2

2006-06-14 18:10:15 · 13 answers · asked by cbro 1

i cheated on my man when i was pregnant with our first kid. my man didn't care about anyone but his friends he didn't care about me.his kid nothing,i felt very alone so i did sopmething stupid,well we got over that and then he went to jail for15 months and i cheated again i told him right off and he still decided to get back with me that has been over a year ago, i feel really bad about it, but now he says he wants to split up for a while b/c i had a chance to explore and he hasn't but he new i cheated and he still took me back. what should i do?

2006-06-14 18:05:46 · 25 answers · asked by mother of 4 1

my husband and i are wanting to try a threesome and i have never done any thing like it before so should i do it or not?

2006-06-14 18:03:19 · 22 answers · asked by woundering about threesomes 1

As the saying Goes "Time is never right for marriage!!" I want to ask - is marriage really very essential? How can a guy explain it to his family that sometimes Loneliness is the best way to happy Life??

2006-06-14 17:54:08 · 34 answers · asked by vinay_talks 5

I believe you can have sex without loving someone, but if you love your Partner, you can’t life without sex. True or False?

2006-06-14 17:50:42 · 7 answers · asked by Yogi 1

have i done anything wrong?
i brought home take out. my son was angry that i didn't bring pop home so he proceeded to ask if my husband (his step-dad) was to LAZY to get him some. NOW, my husband works over time EVERY WEEK to support our children. i am a stay at home mom taking care of his kids, and my own. my husband works very hard and is in NO WAY lazy. but my son (who resides with his dad as he is 14 and has a choice) treats my husband poorly ALL OF THE TIME. so, in my husband's defense i explained that his step-dad had to work one full hour to pay for all of the take out food and that my son's disrespect just bought him LEFTOVERS. i didn't say he COULDN'T eat, i said he couldn't eat what everyone else was eating and that he, my son, would have to get off his lazy bottom and fix his own dinner. well, he refused and called his dad. then went to bed without eating. which i KNOW is going to land me in court. my ex-husband always says i "over-react". WAS THIS PUNISHMENT OK?

2006-06-14 17:49:35 · 17 answers · asked by JayneDoe 5

that burrow in your rug and or clothes that have been packed for a while. I AM SICK TO DEATH of finding these damn things, I have changed rugs and I am clean freak, yet they still appear. how can I get rid of them? what causes them?

2006-06-14 17:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by GTZEVRYTHNG 1

i.e. punched,kicked or slapped him.

2006-06-14 17:23:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband together since i was 8 months pregant and got married two years ago my daughter only knows my husband as daddy. her father does not want anything to do with her and my husband loves her to death. but she as a differant last names and she is asking questions why and i dont know if i should tell her my husband is not her real dad and if i should how?

2006-06-14 17:22:47 · 9 answers · asked by aleym 2

im on depression meds, and want to spice up my sex life, no drive or desire, and i feel bad, i want to make my husband happy, but cant find anything to help, over the counter, herbal or prescrip, any ideas?

2006-06-14 17:22:47 · 8 answers · asked by bbmcgee65 2

AND......people seem to think that it is OK to flirt (because he is too nice to say go away)......or flatter (that is just irritating) or leave notes (that is just pathetic).

I go through this DAILY......any ideas to combat the situation?

2006-06-14 17:22:19 · 4 answers · asked by sqwirlsgirl 5

Sometimes he looks at porn on the internet. I am not supposted to know this, but....you know...We have sex at least every two days, and I really enjoy it. He has impotence problems, and I think this masterbation makes it worse. Why doesn';t he save himself for me? It hurts my feeling alot. Most people think I am pretty. What's going on?

2006-06-14 17:17:58 · 15 answers · asked by Skye7112 2

just recently asked who is the greatest love-husband or child. does it depend on the age of you children. I could not live without my son. i would go with him. but if my husband died i would go on living for my son. so does it depend on the age. i live every day for him my son, but my husband is my soul mate and i know that. but at this point in time if you asked me to chose i would chose my son. but wouldn't any good loving parent chose their child over their spouse. when peole ask me i tell them, brady(son) is the greatest love of my life. and john(husband) is my soul mate and i would expect him to answer the same way. SO does choosing depend on the age of you child? do we put a limit on how far we go for our children?

2006-06-14 17:17:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many times a week is normal help

2006-06-14 17:12:05 · 7 answers · asked by jojo 1

What do you think?

2006-06-14 17:10:59 · 19 answers · asked by curious 1

2006-06-14 17:00:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-14 16:56:37 · 16 answers · asked by brushyfor 1

I have been married for 11 years to a man I love deeply. He has cheated on me more than once and I have always accepted his lousy apologies and worked on trusting him afresh. It has happened again and honestly I don't have the energy to work on our marriage anymore. We have children and this complicates the decision making process. He says he loves me and that I should build trust in him once more. Am I simply wasting my time with him? Can I love him without trusting him? I am not even sure this makes sense! I dont want a "shell" of a marriage for show- I want the real thing or none

2006-06-14 16:55:41 · 45 answers · asked by lavender 1

2006-06-14 16:53:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anthony G 1

I am always amazed when I see parents (and I am ashamed to say I see more mothers do it than fathers!) use their children this way. There is little more a parent could do to permanently harm their children. I think it is a sign of pitiful weakness and a total lack of empathy for their children.

2006-06-14 16:49:37 · 28 answers · asked by wondering 1

my guy is away at work...this time i seem to be really missing him, anyone out there in the same boat? what do you do to cheer your self up

2006-06-14 16:44:55 · 10 answers · asked by thepainter 4