why do women cheat?
better yet why is it that when ever there is the slightest change in a relationship women think " he must be cheating", i mean us as men we have our moods and days some better then others that affect our relationships, but when woman tries to have her man "he must be cheating". What is with the double standard can someone explain it to a brother
2006-06-14 18:12:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
women cheat because they lack morals and disregard there own family.
2006-06-14 19:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Women cheat because there is something their not getting in their marriage; something is lacking. If could be affection, romance, self esteem, or any number of things. They may also just be looking for excitement and sex. I think men have been the leader in the statistics until recent years; but women are catching up with men when it comes to cheating. But I think the double standard is that because it is more accepted when a man cheats. His buddies "high five" him and even cover for him but usually when a woman cheats she looked down upon and judged.
2006-06-15 02:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by nativeazpisces 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not ALL women cheat. I was in an abusive, loveless relationship for 20 years--and I NEVER cheated. My ex cheated, no matter how much sex I gave him (even though he tried to use that as an excuse). Believe me, I could have cheated if I wanted to, but I DON'T believe in doing that to anyone. I had it done to me for far too many years to hurt someone else that way. The way I found to get back at my ex is to move on and live my life with my fiance. I am now in an awesome relationship with all of the love, respect, and attention I deserve.
Saying all women cheat is like saying that all men cheat. If a partner is accusing you of cheating then they are either doing it themselves and are saying that to make themselves feel better, or they have been cheated on too many times in the past and are extremely paranoid of it happening again.
2006-06-15 01:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think women cheat because they are emotionally missing something from their man... and then some smooth talker comes along and knows ALL the right things to say. but, it has been my experience that women feel guilty about it for a LONG time. in my defense in regards to the double standard, i USE TO jump to the "affair" conclusion a lot because my first husband cheated on me day and night and i was to stupid to know until he had another women pregnant while i was pregnant with our second child... so, i think for a long time (after i married for the second time) i made hubby#2 pay for all of hubby#1's mistakes... it wasn't fair, and i knew it, but i couldn't keep myself from thinking something was up if he was 5 minutes late. SO, i think women jump to conclusions IF they have been hurt by infedelity in the past with a lover or spouse.
2006-06-15 01:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The reason I cheated, after almost 20 years, was because I felt like I was the only one giving in the relationship. We couldn't communicate (no matter how hard I tried) and soon, my hurt turned to anger. Then I turned to a friend and fell in love with him. It's been crazy ever since...P.S> JaneDoe hit it right on the nose in her first sentence!!
2006-06-15 01:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they cheat b/c their men r at the gym late at night everyday they need someone to keep them warm at night
its funny how a relationship can change and no one knows about the change but U
2006-06-15 02:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
women cheat for the same reasons men do, because they can. If you treat a woman with respect and love, fulfill their needs, pay their bills,change your moods to suit your woman and worship at her feet, but only when she wants that etc, etc you will be fine haha
2006-06-15 01:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have to say woman cheat for the same reason men do.
2006-06-15 02:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are u sure only women cheating in this world?what about guys?OK if u say women cheating whom do u think she is cheating with her?no one cheating his wife or husband for non reason.it have something to cheat her husband or his wife.
2006-06-15 02:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Balma 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they are with lame men like you who can't raise to the occasion so we need to find something functional! Get a clue.
2006-06-15 11:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
to feel validated like they did before they were tied down. to feel like someone is crazy about you, hanging on your every word, to feel the amazing feeling of the "first time" for everything again. all selfish reasons.
2006-06-15 01:31:27 · answer #11 · answered by Amy Reynolds 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋