how many times a week is normal help
2006-06-14 17:12:05 · 7 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
JoJo, just having "sex" a specific number of times a week is not normal ! Married or not......
there is a difference in having sex (which is just a physical act) and making love to your partner. Which by the way....should be the person you're married to.
But there is no specific"normal" number of times a week to make love either.
Making love with the person you are in love with (your spouse) is the way God intended it to be. Pleasure.....sharing and giving your all to each other. (not..and I repeat ...NOT...a physical need or act to perform on demand or when expected or the number of times a week expected). This is a personal relationship, sharing of love one for another when it feels right, when you feel like expressing it to each other. Don't let anyone make you feel "obligated" to "perform sex" the number of times a week they say is normal.
Make love to your husband when you and he are feeling close and want to share yourselves with each other and give your love, your all to each other. Giving each other pleasure.
What pleasure is in "performing sex" a certain number of times a week????? (just because someone told you that was normal)
Read your Bible. Serve the Lord. Pray about this...And pray for the person that may be expecting "sex" from you the number of times a week they seem to think is "normal".
God Bless You,
(If your mate is just feeling "the need"....tell him to take a cold shower...) I mean if he's just expecting "sex" a certain number of times a week....I'm not talking about Making Love. when both are having the same desire.
2006-06-14 20:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by LindaInNC 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on both of You and Your Sex drive...Normal maybe 5 (1 time) days a week??
2006-06-14 17:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by shinningstarofthecarribean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal is what is agreed upon between both partners. Some people and couples are happy with a couple times a month while others may want it 4 tiemes a month and others may want it almost daily.
2006-06-14 23:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you and your man but I have it 7 days a week meaning every day and also some oral pleasures
Some men like to have some oral pleasure instead!
2006-06-14 18:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by chelsey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me on a normal seven day week at least eight times with alot of oral episodes in between
2006-06-14 17:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by roughgar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hubby and I are intimate only about once a month if that.
2006-06-14 17:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by darkrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once every other week.
2006-06-14 17:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋