Sometimes he looks at porn on the internet. I am not supposted to know this, but....you know...We have sex at least every two days, and I really enjoy it. He has impotence problems, and I think this masterbation makes it worse. Why doesn';t he save himself for me? It hurts my feeling alot. Most people think I am pretty. What's going on?
2006-06-14 17:17:58 · 15 answers · asked by Skye7112 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you talked to him about it ? If not you should. But don't take it personally,I'm sure it has nothing to do with you as a person or your looks. It sounds pretty innocent,nothing too abnormal. Just sit down and talk to him about it. Good luck sweaty !
2006-06-14 17:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
please dont be hurt because ur hubby masturbates, its absolutely normal. There is no such thing as "saving" himself for you. If he has a high sex drive maybe he needs a release before 2 days. Try to talk to him about it, maybe he fantasizes, get involve with him and share what he is feeling and maybe both of you can enjoy it too. maybe give him some privacy and let him do what he is doing, if he is performing and satisfying you when you guys do it. try talking to him, bring up the subject during ur next sex session and ask him about his fantasies, ask him if you were out of town for a month, how would he take care of himself etc!
2006-06-14 17:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy. He likes to play with himself. You can speak to a dr and ask if impotence is caused by masturbation but I seriously doubt it. Dont be hurt by it ask to join with him. Might be fun and you never know it might be twice a day instead of every 2 days
2006-06-14 17:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Luvnu_always baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is still making love to you on the regular basic and you are also happy with your sex life, it's normal for him to masturbate on his own time ... just because his sex drive is too high. On the other hand, you can try to make love to him everyday to help making his urge go away, he will probably stop masturbating or looking at porn. In general, almost everyone masturbates just at different frequency as long as their masturbation doesn't interfere with their normal activities.
2006-06-14 18:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by chd.tran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is an addiction. The chemicals in our bodies release during sexual arousal create the same effect on the brain as drugs do. This can lead to both an increased frequency of the habit and a never-ending search for new material(as books and internet porn) to enhance the experience. Masturbation conditions our bodies to self-stimulate which is self-centered. This damages our ability to relate to another person sexually. It also causes sexual imbalance. This may cause a man to stay up to surf for porn to masturbate to. His job suffers because lack of sleep, his family sours because he is grouchy, his wife is alienated from him because his lack of affection and internet surfing and his debt increases because of his credit cards charges from porn sites. I suggest that it is impossible to love God with all his heart, soul and mind when he idolizes sex images in his eyes and thoughts. Masturbation can rob him of many blessings God has planned for his life. Masturbation will cause lifelong bondage and handicappes spirtual life. His root of the problem can be violence, trauma, abuse molestion, unloved by his parents, being made fun of by peers, getting dumped on by women, bitterness, resentment, grudges, occult activity, unforgiveness, sexual sin, pride such as ( I don't need anyone, I don't need God, ect.), lust/sexual idolatry, soul ties, homosexual activity(group sex, women together and felishes, etc). You need to talk to your husband and find out why he does this before he just leaves you alone competely. Good Bless. Ask Zella
2006-06-14 18:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 types of men in the world
masturbaters and liars
what d you think the porn is on the internet for?
he obviuosly has a high sex drive so why not encourage him to have sex with you more often?
2006-06-15 00:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by ian m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impotence problems it allot comun on this day's. the same thing are havin sex with his self ( masturbation).
Every men doe that no matter how much sex they have, it just sonthing there need to feel ok with there self.
2006-06-14 17:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sanliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isnt healthy. He may have a sex addiction problem. I know that men looking at Porn or Masturbating is Selfish, and need's help.
2006-06-14 18:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by inthisskin22x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was married to a porn addict myself for 17 years...He hid the porn sites on the net from me and i stumbled across them one day, along with books and videos...i have enuff self esteem to get rid of him...an occasional masturbation is ok but you have urself a freak..it only gets worse.You can either accept it or let him go...i couldn't handle it so i moved on...oh and by the way....HE IS NOT IMPOTENT!!!!!!!!
2006-06-14 17:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by shammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on? ... he's having sex with himself, thats what's going on and he can't be too impotent if you're having sex every other day and he masturbates every day. Maybe you should rape him.
2006-06-14 17:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋