i dont want her up everyday but 1or2
2006-06-14 18:10:15 · 13 answers · asked by cbro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first, what time does she have to be up for work ??? And if you'd like your wife up 1 or 2 days, ask her !!!!
2006-06-14 18:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by quiet times 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I feel your pain! I work a rotating shift. 12.5 hours each, from 6 to 630 and it switches from days to nights. Your biggest problem here is if you break her sleep cycle it will probably NOT be worth the time you'll be spending together! I'm assuming you have the weekends together. Your best bet here is to focus on the QUALITY time, and not quantitiy. I've been doing this for 14 years! I know it's tuff to be away from home during the evening hours. Depending on what her day is like, perhaps she could slowly adjust her day so that the two over lap. If not, you'll need to adapt. This type of work hours can be a big stress on both of you! Go at it easy, with an open mind, and don't be frustrated or angry with her because she's not there waiting for you when you get home. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you....it just means she's tired! Good luck!
2006-06-15 01:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Big D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not tell us if she is working or not and if she is working what time does she have to be to work. She might need her rest as much as you do. If she is not working then you have most of the day with her before you go to work. I was working the same shift as you and my wife works first shift so she would only stay up with me on Friday and Saturday nights. Work it out the best you can.
2006-06-15 01:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by fastsaf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set a time and night with her once a week or so... Talk to her and ask her nicely about this... I also know you have to have a day or two off of work each week too so plan on doing things together those days!
2006-06-15 06:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work 3-11 to and it depends on what type of schedule my husband is on because he works shift work he will stay up and wait for me. On his days off he will wait up for me and on my days off i will wait up for him and we watch a movie or something. Marriage is about compromises and you need to have that. when you are both working it is hard to find time together but if she is not working and you have kids that can get tiring as well, if she does not work and does not have kids then she should wait up for you or at least wake up when you get home.
Tell her you miss her and wish to spend time with her.
Good Luck buddy
2006-06-15 01:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she work
2006-06-15 01:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odd hours eh? Try and work something out that's good for both of you. Its really no good to not see each other. Connecting is important any hour of the day.
2006-06-15 01:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by Chantilylace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like she is tired ! I would call her when she is up and make arrangements for her to ;plan what night she can stay up.She could maybe take a nap so she can stay up a little longer.
2006-06-15 01:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should want to be awake a couple of times a week, to see you when you get home. I'd be awake.
2006-06-15 01:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....you can tell her to take a nap or work out same days off as her....i used to have that shift....really cramped up my social life..good luck!
2006-06-15 01:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋