Marriage???

Question

As the saying Goes "Time is never right for marriage!!" I want to ask - is marriage really very essential? How can a guy explain it to his family that sometimes Loneliness is the best way to happy Life??

Answer 1

Loneliness is not usually associated with happiness. It usually denotes some kind of pain or wanting. However, if you choose to be alone, there is no reason that you can't find happiness. People find happiness in hobbies and activities, in serving others, in achieving goals, and many other ways. So, happiness is not dependent on whether or not you are married. "Is marriage essential?" Only you know the answer to that. I didn't think of marriage for many years. But then one day, it hit me. I felt that I would be more fulfilled by sharing my life with someone - by having a partner, someone to love and take care of (and vice versa). It was an insight, and it happened at the perfect time for me. But for years before that, it did not seem necessary or essential to my happiness. And no matter what family members thought I should do, I didn't feel the way they did. When I felt like getting married, I felt it in my own heart with the right guy for me. And basically, it just added to my overall happiness. My happiness wasn't contingent on being married.

Answer 2

i've never heard that "saying" before about time never being right for marriage, but it seems obvious to me that you have some issues with the idea of marriage.yes- it is essential to a healthy relationship. even if you're not religious, if you're truly in love with someone and they're in love with you, certainly each of you would want it known by others that this guy or this girl is taken. nothing does that better that a wedding ring worn in sincerity with a heartfelt pledge of love behind it, supported by laws of all fifty states and provinces. a right partner understands the need for "alone " time. loneliness is never a pathway to happiness in life.just living together, or just "being" together is not the same as being married to each other.

Answer 3

i want to say that you have never really loved anyone. that may or may not be true. once you find someone that you can spend the rest of your life with. when you are a better person when you are with her. when she is not there you are thinking about her. you can imagine holding her and can imagine having children with her. then you will know why marriage is essential. it completes you and makes you a better person. it puts everything in perspective and gives you a reason other than yourself to get up in the morning. it alleviates the selfishness from your life, because you care more about their happiness than your own. love is a wonderful gift from God and it is something that should be enjoyed. i don't think that anyone really wants to be single when they are 80 years old. maybe right now when you are young and attractive, but when you get older and you have no one that wants to hold you no children and no one to wake up with in the morning. then you will know what true loneliness is. you will know it with every breath that you breath. that you missed out on love. your chance is gone and you will regret it. but it is your life, live it as you please. you are the one that got to live with the results. what ever you decide i wish you well, and I'll pray for you.

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Answer 4

A marriage between one guy and one woman has been found over thousands of years of human experience; to be the best way to raise children. The added benefits like sex, love, money, shared memories, and a better shot at a long healthy life, are just bonuses. The purpose of marriage is as a tool for raising a family.

Answer 5

Contrary to popular opinion, marriage does not end loneliness. Many married people because of diverse interests spend a lot of time alone or doing separate things. I believe that your family loves you, and they will eventually except your choice. If your happiness is based on an external source, it's only temporary. True joy comes from within, and then you can share it if you choose too...

Answer 6

Marriage is not going to fix loneliness... but loneliness will not make your life happy. Trust me, I like to be alone, and have my own time and my own space. But I just moved back to my hometown, where I now have no friends and I do nothing. I do not believe loneliness is the way to a happy life, I believe optimism is.

Answer 7

Marriage is very essential. Ask the kids who are being raised by single parents and have a different last name then mom or dad. They want mommy and daddy to marry. But if you choose not to marry and stay single and not be with someone that is okay too!

Answer 8

You could explain it by saying I have to find happiness within myself in order to find it with someone else. And in order to do that I have to figure out who I am and what I want out of life. To know the answer would have experince different thing and loneliness is one of the behaviors.

Answer 9

HI VINAY,
I know that i should not answer this question coz i am not very matured for this, but as a friend i would like to say you that lonliness really sucks !!! you will not understand it at this moment but as the the time will pass and you will become older you will need someone for you .........who can understand you and can love you at the same time !!lonliness will make you deppressed !!at first i used to say the same thing but my mother explained me the importance of being together.........getting married !!she told me that getting married is such a beautiful thing in ones life !!this is what my mom says to me !!!
i hope you understood what i mean to say !!
I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD GET MARRIED !!!(sorry if i said something wrong )

GOD BLESS !! ^_^

Answer 10

Hey Cutie. Must say, you look very nice...
If you want to live and stay single and you really do enjoy your Loneliness, you must enjoy that to the fullest. and enjoy the time of your life, but there will be coming a time that you must decide what to do. i mean: the time you don't expect it the most, you will fall in love....