I have an affair while i was married. my husband didn't know about it. We got divorce and I move in with my boy friend. we are so inlove. while waiting for my divorce to be final. but i wasn't ready to settle so i moved out to my BF place. went back to my ex husband place; live as a couple. but we're divorce. then one day my boy friend called my ex husband and he told everything that his not supposed to say. i thought that i can trust him. by not telling everybody about me. so i broke up with him. i know i'm not perfect & i made mistake. but i was wrong to give all that trust. now my ex husband & my ex boy friend want me back...
my question is my ex bf still inlove with me & we still talk but he doesn't know that i live with my ex husband. what should i do? I'm still inlove with him but deep inside i am afraid. thank you for you time reading my problem...
2006-06-14 11:36:08 · 7 answers · asked by Dance06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to leave them both alone and start working on you. Step out of the situation so you can get it together.
2006-06-14 11:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should think about this....What would make ME happy.... if you are happy with yourself then you will know who would keep that happiness flowing... if you are with someone that has cheated with you while he knew you where married....do you really think he wont do the same to you? This bf has got to go! you need to cut all ties and as hard as it will be(trust me ive been through this) you will never fully trust this bf, how could you? he did cheat with a married woman once! As for your husband... was this a one time deal with just this one other guy? was it just the sex or did you emotionally cheat on your husband? maby he isnt satisfying your needs physically and emotionally. dont look for someone who Makes you happy....go for someone that is happy with themselves and that will allow you to be yourhappy self.
2006-06-14 11:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by sxxynikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you are afraid, how can you use so many people at a time in life. You should take your heart wherevfer it belongs and leave these guys alone. Maybe the fear is that one or both of them might object to your behavior, at the same time!
2006-06-14 11:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to choose how your heart really belongs with. Think about who you can trust and love forever, who you are really going to be happy with, but i would make a choice now and not play eaither of them. and if you cant make a choice drop them both and move on.
2006-06-14 11:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need therapy. You don't know why you ended your marriage and neither does your ex-hubby. That situation needs to be resolved. As for your ex-bf, how do you know he's Mr. Right and not Mr. Right-Now? Personally, you need to spend sometime away from both of them. Collect yourself or seek therapy.
2006-06-14 11:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my question to you.....is who do you want to be with? If you want the boyfriend, go on back to him. But you need to make a choice. You could also choose to leave them both alone and go find someone new/fresh. The choice is yours. Good luck.
2006-06-14 11:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly ur perdicument is way to messy..........if i were you i would quit both and start over with someone new. too many disappointments and hard feelings and lies involved in the other two relationships......
2006-06-14 12:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋