Marriage & Divorce - 13 June 2006

My husband sometimes acts little boyish and so silly that it turns me OFF. It's hard to respond and be sexual with a grown man that's actually older than myself...and he talks silly and says these things that just get on my nerves. I've told him how I feel, but that didn't work because he did it again the next time. He is somewhat shy and old-fashioned, I guess...but I need something different than this and you can't really change people, now can you ? I don't even want to have sex with him anymore because of these issues...and that creates a marrital problem, for sure ! Anybody relate to that ?

2006-06-13 08:41:06 · 6 answers · asked by ramblingongirl 1

I just split from the relationship of 5 years. We still talk etc. How do I move on? Should I move on?
When he offers security and comfort, is it worth going back and staying with him?
I just feel like I cant stop thinking about all the good times. And there really WERE no bad times, I just didnt feel in love anymore.
How do I know we made the right choice? And dont say "follow your heart". I want advice from real people who have gone thru this.
When or where is that line I have to cross to decide if I need to go back and make it work or move on?

2006-06-13 08:39:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has just told me last year when we were seperated that his father had done bad stuff to him growing up late at night. We'll leave it at that. He refuses to get counseling for it, if he is just telling me after 9 years. But, could this be why he insists on having sex all the time, it has become a chore and isn't enjoyable anymore. I tell him that and it doesn't phase him at all. Please help. Serious answers only please.

2006-06-13 08:38:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's a good one.
I was officially divorced December 2005
What on earth do you suggest I do with my wedding ring?!

2006-06-13 08:35:53 · 72 answers · asked by cuteshyghost 1

My fiancee asked me to marry him almost a year ago (july 2005). This May we set a date of May2007 for the wedding.I love him and want to marry him & he says that he loves me & wants to marry me but he seems to not care about planning the wedding. He said if I want this wedding to happen it is all up to me to plan it. Another issue is that he has said that he isnt ready to be married (I think this is just an excuse) I dont understand--we are living as married people do (sharing finances, investing in joint purchases, being intimate, etc.) I dont see how things will change after we get married. Also he says, yes he wants to get married & be w/me & have kids. This is confusing me. Im not sure whether I should push ahead &continue planning the wedding or not, but I feel that if he doesnt commit to me in marriage then we should end the relationship. I wasnt raised to think its ok to have sex outside of marriage & each day that I do I feel guilty. I want us to be committed & have a future.

2006-06-13 08:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know of three times that she has been married, but family members have told me that there are more. She denies it completely and I want to know if she is telling me the truth. She lived in Neenah, WI and I tried looking for answers through the yahoo search engine, but got no results. What can I do now?

2006-06-13 08:29:12 · 2 answers · asked by trgger23 3

I think my husband has a real problem. I dont know what to do!! I love him so very much but this is a constent problem. He had hid this from me before but i found out that my husbaand like to get the #'s for call girls. For people in the L.A. area you might be familiar with it, the newspaper is called the L.A. Express. I asked him to please not get those newspapers and he promised me but time and time again i have found him lying. Whats the need to call those #'s??? Now instead of getting the whole newspaper all he does is cut the articles out. I find this to be a very big betrayel, am i wrong??? I dont know what to do anymore. Why all the lying???

2006-06-13 08:29:04 · 6 answers · asked by campos2637 1

2006-06-13 08:21:06 · 16 answers · asked by Therapy girl 1

We all went out one night, me and my girls and my husband and his friends and ended up in the same place at the same time. Everyone was off doing their own thing and my best friend hooked up with my husband's business partner - on their own. That was a little over a year ago, and they've been going strong ever since, however in the course of this time, I've come to know the business partner's fiance, so do I tell her he's cheating or not?

2006-06-13 08:19:58 · 6 answers · asked by genger_plum 1

I am interested to know what people think of when they think of romantic and unique way to propose marriage, not looking for "on the Jumbo-Tron" or some other Hollywood cliché.

2006-06-13 08:17:39 · 7 answers · asked by drglizard 3

2006-06-13 08:16:18 · 6 answers · asked by lordydordy42 2

2006-06-13 08:15:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

has anyone ever made so many mistakes and looked back and cant understand why you did them? i ruined and threw away not only a 8 year relationship but more recntly any hope of it ever been back together? how come i always realise what i have done when its to late and no matter how hard i try i keep returning to the side of me i hate?
i cant seem to let go of the past and i let it control me through anger and resentment for myself which i take out on others.
will i always be this way i really am trying to change but seem to do it

2006-06-13 08:11:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong for a woman now a days to propose marriage to a man????

2006-06-13 08:08:21 · 13 answers · asked by italianprincess_fl 3

We have a son together. He's almost 18 months old. My fiance wants to be gone all the time either fishing or hanging out with his buddies while I'm stuck at home all of the time. We both work full time. But yet I still have to come home and take care of baby and clean and cook. He doesn't help with ANYTHING!

2006-06-13 07:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by Abbi 2

2006-06-13 07:49:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

loved/adored only him & he knows it.I'm 45 yrs young and I know I have been blind to ALOT of things he has done. We had a VERY bad year (2004) and he allowed his family to abuse me the second they saw him do so. He's been in prison for the last 20 mos. and will be out in 2 weeks. He stopped writting to me months ago and when he did, it wasn't the same, come on I know my husband and when he is guilty about something...he puts himself "on blast" and plays me for a fool. Or blames ME. My motto this year has been "ZERO TOLERANCE" and I'd like to keep to it. I love him, Iv'e always LOVED him, always will.BUT I don't want to.I wrote him alot making a fool of myself.
I want to follow my head and not my heart for once in my life It's never gotten me anywhere I don't have anything to show for my life, I still ride a bike for Pete's sake!! I live with relatives and I work full time, I take care of myself and dont show my age, guysYoung esp try their best but I'm not interested what do I do?

2006-06-13 07:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

keeping your wife happy

financial struggles

2006-06-13 07:44:19 · 25 answers · asked by Jason Halen G 1

2006-06-13 07:39:51 · 18 answers · asked by Jason Halen G 1

I know someone who is being accused of being a father but the only proof is that the "father" was not the father according to the DNA test. The woman wants him to sign over his rights without a test. I dont even know where to begin with this situation.

2006-06-13 07:39:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel really sad and neglected. I feel he doesn't appreciate my love for him. It hurts me terribly. Should i try not to love him anymore and move on with someone else or should i stay on?

2006-06-13 07:34:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

She kissed me in a car when I drove her to the store. Should I tell my wife?

2006-06-13 07:33:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

A while back my partner cheated on me, and even though i tell him i will try to forget about it, I cant. It like messes with my head and sometimes i start thinking crazy stuff. I always said i will never put up with that, but i did. I dont know if im doing right or wrong, but its very hard to trust him. I sometimes think that he is thinking about her or had something farther with her. I love him alot. But i am very confused. We have had long conversations and always talked that i cannot do nothing no more, its in the past, i just try to look toward the future. But he still doenst know how its feels and all the things you can think about and go crazy about. What should i do, or what advice do you give me. I dont want to ruin my marriage by throwing it in his face everytime we start a fight.

2006-06-13 07:31:50 · 16 answers · asked by LostMind 2

After a very long marridge of over 35 years, a couple divorces.The man remarries.Twenty years later his first wife dies.Is it proper for him to go to the wake.His / their children are in their 50s,some realatives still have anamosity, lots of tension ,whats proper, ? whats correct ?

2006-06-13 07:31:29 · 9 answers · asked by phoenix32137 1

JESUS! Take a breather! You don't HAVE to get married just because you are smitten with someone. You have to FEEL the connection....and ladies, I don't mean your over-emotional hormonal feelings....TRUE feelings that this is the right person. Avoid all these goddamned problems, and stop marrying the wrong people!!!!!!!!!

2006-06-13 07:31:02 · 36 answers · asked by yosoyfantastico 1

2006-06-13 07:30:06 · 17 answers · asked by Dilly the Kid 2

Being in the military my husband was aware that at any time I could get called up, so I volunteered! Now they are saying we will be gone longer than what they had originally said. Is 18 mths too long to ask my husband to wait for me?

2006-06-13 07:21:02 · 15 answers · asked by RX2 4

2006-06-13 07:14:34 · 4 answers · asked by jenniffer m 2

2006-06-13 07:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by losiracin2005 1

This relates to my last question. Im 23 and my husband is 25. He wont make love to me. I know he isnt cheating (im with him 24/7) and we like it that way. His father had the same problem with his mother. Could having no desire for sex have been genetically passed down? He says he knows he has a problem, but he doesnt know what it is or how to change it. He says he wants to make love to me, but he says he never even thinks about sex.

2006-06-13 07:13:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous