We all went out one night, me and my girls and my husband and his friends and ended up in the same place at the same time. Everyone was off doing their own thing and my best friend hooked up with my husband's business partner - on their own. That was a little over a year ago, and they've been going strong ever since, however in the course of this time, I've come to know the business partner's fiance, so do I tell her he's cheating or not?
2006-06-13 08:19:58 · 6 answers · asked by genger_plum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I suggest staying out of it. So often, when people think that they are being good people by telling, they end up being the HATED. It will come out in due time....trust it.
2006-06-13 08:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your husband's business partner before you do anything. Let him know that you find it very awkward to be in the situation you are in - being friends with everyone involved and having to more or less lie to his fiance. He should tell his fiance whats going on - furthermore, if he's been "going strong" with your best friend for a year, he certainly shouldn't be getting married.
You shouldn't tell his fiance unless you want a heap of drama to unfold - with you being at the center of it for telling. The best thing to do would be to talk to the business partner and if he does nothing talk to your best friend and let her know how you feel. If you talk to the business partner and he doesn't tell his fiance/break it up with her - the odds are he isn't going to leave her and your best friend is being led on, and that you do have the right to tell your best friend.
2006-06-13 15:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Bomerang. You will look like the bad person, and she is you best friend. She might already have an idea what is going on. Remember, I fish would not have been caught if he kept his mouth closed.
2006-06-13 15:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by buckeye45694 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest keeping it to yourself. If you tell his fiance, then it will always come back to you. I know it's wrong but it's probably best.
2006-06-13 15:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by just me000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it will come out eventually but you don't want your husband and his buisness partner fall apart
2006-06-13 15:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by mermerraerae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's none of your business. Even if it is wrong.
2006-06-13 15:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋