2006-06-13 07:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by losiracin2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO...NO..and NO! It doesn't matter how much lubrication you use...it will still hurt. God made that hole for one reason and one reason only....EXIT ONLY. If I was you...I would respect your girlfriends wishes that she is not interested in that, before she walks away from you. It's not good to pressure your woman to perform a act that she is not comfortable with. Please respect her wishes.
2006-06-13 07:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's kinda tricky. first off you have to make sure shes really warmed up for it. lots of lube and getting ready for it by sex toys like vibes help to loosen her up and get her ready.
BUT.
if you try all that, and it just doesnt work, it hurts too much, then congrats you have the same 'problem' my ex had...you might just be too big. unlike the vagina the anus doesnt like to get much bigger, and the only people who can take larger sizes have been working on it for a long, long time.
another thing, heres a big thing about anal. if you're in her, and she starts to say ow, get out as fast as possible, because the pain only compounds from that first ow.
So warm her up a LOT, use more lube than you've ever used in your life, and GO SLOW. my first anal experience, while it felt weird, didn't hurt at all. the guy knew what he was doing and warmed me up properly. special positions help too, but i couldnt tell you what positions are best, i'd reccomend you go to the bookstore for that one. i know i've seen books for anal before.
Good luck!
2006-06-13 07:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by tanja_berengue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first stand her in a doggy stile and then enter your penis very slow into her anal then ask you GF that she feel comfortable if you get the answer Yes then start moving.............
2006-06-13 07:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Just For Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must you have this anal biz? Will it make you a better person or what? Can't you see she is not keen about it?
2006-06-13 07:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by TOO HOT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't.
If you want to make her feel more comfortable, stop trying to go in an "exit only" area.
2006-06-13 07:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the tape off your ding dong and put the real size in, you shouldn't have a problem after that.
2006-06-13 07:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a unique way to ask for a divorce.
2006-06-13 07:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use lots of oil and go very slow ,,dont rush it , if you make it hurt she wont like it
2006-06-13 07:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'show by example': take a dildo, lube it up, try on yourself and show her how its done. If she leaves in disgust, it was never meant to be.
2006-06-13 08:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its still going to hurt...
lots of lube, and be really easy
2006-06-13 07:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋