She kissed me in a car when I drove her to the store. Should I tell my wife?
2006-06-13 07:33:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely, tell your wife, she needs to know what kind of person her 'friend' is. If her 'friend' tells first, you are gonna be toast. She will never trust you again.
2006-06-13 07:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question to you is how in the world did she get that close to kiss you? Second, what are you own feelings towards her?
After considering the questions. I think you need to look at your own behavior and of course if you tell your wife expect her to flip out. It is your choice. However, if this is you best friend's wife, I would tell my wife the truth and let my wife handle her. But know, this may cause some trust issues which can be worked out through marriage counseling.
But, I am still concerned...how in the world did she get so close to your lips. Flirting is one thing, but kissing? It takes two to tango.
2006-06-13 07:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by kaiynasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being tested . The best way to handle this is to point out you are faithfully married. Although you appreciate the compliment, nothing's going to progress. DO NOT, I repeat,DO NOT TELL ANYONE. You tell your wife, she will be torqued.
It may not be with her friend either. She already knows what her friend is like so it will come down to- she believes you , now no more friend, you'll get blamed- she does not believe you, now you get blamed again. Is there a remote possibility that your wife was aware this was going to happen and found out your response. Stranger things have happened. Tell the friend that nothing's going to happen . Then Shut UP.
2006-06-13 09:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you love your wife, certainly tell her first, then decide together how to deal with the other couple in the future.
Also expect your wife to ask you why you didn't turn away when the woman tried to kiss you. No single kiss is worth all the grief this will cause you. You will most certainly lose the other couple as friends. Don't add your wife to the list of losses.
2006-06-13 07:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make sure this isn't some kind of "test" - her and your wife trying to determine IF you'd ever succumb to temptation. If it isn't a test, determine whether or not you want to have an affair with her. You need to determine is if she's hotter than your wife. If you are going to cheat, always trade up. Make sure the two of you are discreet. If you do not want to mess with the girl, keep the flirting quiet, tell her you aren't interested. If it happens again, tell your wife. The last thing you want is for your wife to hear about it from an outside source, whether you are innocent or not.
2006-06-13 07:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Alberto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, by all means tell your wife! If you've done nothing to encourage it, she should be aware of what her friend is doing behind her back! Overlooking it could go two ways, first if your wife hears about it from someone else, it will look bad for you. Second, if you don't tell your wife, her friend may think it was okay and may do it (or more ) again.
2006-06-13 07:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by mopargrapeape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call! Not sure what you should do about that one. If you do tell your wife, she'll probably put most of the blame on you anyways, since you are coming between her and her best friend. If you dont, either she will never find out, or she will, and then you'll be in the dog house even worse than if you had told her.
Would not want to be in your shoes, buddy! Sorry I couldn't be of more help!
2006-06-13 07:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. Maybe it could be a test tween the ladies 2 c how u react??
U better come clean with ur wife about this or it will bite u in the butt.
If my friend did this to me i would wanta know then i would invite her hubby over for a 3some lol
2006-06-13 11:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by JO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell ur wife's best friend how you really feel about this whole thing eg. you dont feel that this is the right thing to do and that she should stop. if she continues on with this behaviour, i think that you should tell your wife about it..she has the right to know what her best friend is like. well, all this is subjected to how you feel about your wife's best friend kissing you...
2006-06-13 07:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by kyria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell you wife. Tell the bf to back off, don't let it happen again or you will tell your wife. But if think the bf is going to tell your wife you kissed her. I would talk to the wife first. Don't let yourself be alone with her anymore to avoid any future mishaps. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT ONE!!!
2006-06-13 07:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, do you want her?
JOKING
It would depend on how your wife would react. My initial reaction is to let her know what happened. On the other hand if you've had a bad history of either cheating, or being accused of it, you will be in trouble if you tell her or don't and she finds out.
2006-06-13 11:13:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋