My husband sometimes acts little boyish and so silly that it turns me OFF. It's hard to respond and be sexual with a grown man that's actually older than myself...and he talks silly and says these things that just get on my nerves. I've told him how I feel, but that didn't work because he did it again the next time. He is somewhat shy and old-fashioned, I guess...but I need something different than this and you can't really change people, now can you ? I don't even want to have sex with him anymore because of these issues...and that creates a marrital problem, for sure ! Anybody relate to that ?
2006-06-13 08:41:06 · 6 answers · asked by ramblingongirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My best friend told me that her husband acts this very same way. Our husbands don't like certain things and they are mainly focused on our chests and nothing else, believe me. I just don't know if I can take it any longer... !!!
2006-06-13 08:43:18 · update #1
also...cme2bleve's reply is way off base. Things have been tried and he's old fashioned remember ? I'm not a poor dumb gal, either ! I have a lot more experience than he does and have tried to share...he's the one that's got the hang ups.
2006-06-13 08:58:46 · update #2
HOW BOUT TELL HIM.. NO SEX.. CUZ U DON'T LIKE THOSE THINGS.. TELL HIM STRAIGHT OUT THAT IT'LL TURN U OFF.
2006-06-13 08:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this, take CONTROL! set up a weekend getaway, tell him you are in charge of everything sexual and go from there. DO NOT ALLOW HIM ON TOP. be a little aggressive, and when you are on top, speak slow, deep ROMANTIC things to him. when y'all talk about it later (as long as he doesn't juvenile the whole thing) tell him you LOVED the romantic MATURE sex you had.
also, let him be a kid once a while, and get your romantic rocks off the other times!! COMPROMISE!!!!!!
2006-06-13 08:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by gettinsum2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor dumb gal...At least your guy is still interested in ya and trying to keep sex fun !!!!! Oh BOO HOO for you !!!
Instead of trying to change him try changing yourself. Ya don't want him to concentrate on your boobs, then roll over !!! Move yourself instead of just laying there. Give him a b/j or take the initiative for a change. I bet he would faint if you got on your knees and wanted it from the rear for a change cause you sopund like the typical gal who won't initiate anything and just lies there to recieve.. What a waste.
2006-06-13 08:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by cme2bleve 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
alot of men like acting out during sex, i kinda like it i do the same with my hubby but not to where it will turn me off,
2006-06-13 08:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I wear diapers and plastic pants and play baby and I can get her off many times, so put on a diaper and plastic pants on him and have fun taking them off of him and give him what he needs or he will fine someone who WILL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-13 08:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are just silly its nothing to be mad about.
2006-06-13 09:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by J999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋