Marriage & Divorce - 12 June 2006

2006-06-12 13:39:34 · 12 answers · asked by broken hearted 1

Because we have been together since High School. I want to be with this other guy so much it hurts...what should I do?

2006-06-12 13:15:16 · 17 answers · asked by Gabby 1

Everyone calls me Angel though.

2006-06-12 12:58:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a rel/ship for ~10yrs now and for the last 2 years things have not been going well for us. During this time I have told my b-friend that WE really need to work on US, his response is we will once (fill in any excuse here that fits). Well now, he finally realizes that I have been neglected am lonely and wants US back again (emotionally, intimately I haven't moved out or anything like that). He is working SO hard and I just don't care, it seems like I want for him to completely understand how lonely I have been over the last couple of years, and I KNOW THIS IS WRONG, but I just either am use to the loneliness or I'm being a ugly hearted woman. I love this man I have NEVER cheated on him even when things were awful and I really do want US back, but I don't know how to let go of the pain and resentment.... any help would be greatly appreciated

2006-06-12 12:51:59 · 25 answers · asked by nsparky1 2

I have tried soap and water, goo gone and nothing works?

2006-06-12 12:51:46 · 5 answers · asked by cheesytwist 1

My husband was previously married in the Catholic church.
He has two children with his ex-wife. Since their divorce and our wedding, people continue to think of them as a couple. Why does a second wife get no recognition? His family and friends still refer to her as his wife. Does a second wife ever get status or respect?

2006-06-12 12:50:23 · 6 answers · asked by amar sin mentiras 1

I caught my wife having an online sexual conversation with some one she used to go to HS with. The bad thing is that she also sent him a pic of her Vagina. She tells me that she is sorry that she sent the pic, and that it will never happen again. I have always trusted her 100% but this has put a real strain on my trust for her. I love her to death and believe her when she says she never meant to hurt me. (But again thats after the fact) and I dont know if she would have keep this up. Because she had taken another pic for Him but says she never gave it to him because she felt bad about what she had done.
I just would like some insite into what I should do. I am currently going to give her another chance and hope I dont get burned.

2006-06-12 12:47:00 · 11 answers · asked by Monty7 1

2006-06-12 12:40:18 · 21 answers · asked by justwondering 1

I have to admit that i wait on my husband hand and foot. i cook all his meals,iron his uniform, do his laundry, i clean up after him, i get him something to drink or eat when he is watching tv, if we are at a cookout or something like that then i make his plate so he doesnt have to stop what he is doing, he never has to do anything at home. the problem i run into is my friends seem to think that i am nuts and need a wake up call. what exactly is wrong with pampering your husband and meeting all of his needs. He has the final say in every decision around my house and what he says goes. when did it become a bad thing to "serve" your husband. is there anyone else out there who shares the same views as me???

2006-06-12 12:36:16 · 26 answers · asked by Becca 1

2006-06-12 12:29:58 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-12 12:25:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-12 12:21:39 · 13 answers · asked by t_fo_sizzle 3

i went out the other night, the first time in a long time to have a good time by myself and relax...i had all my responibilites taken care of; my daughter was at a friends house for the weekend, i had a preplanned way home if i got too intoxicated...so i thought i had all the bases covered...save one i guess..which brings me to my question..
i know when i went out saturday i did nothing wrong, but my husband acts as though i commited the crime of the century and wont allow me to forget it...i had only wanted a little time to myself before i begin classes tomorrow, i've tried talking to him about it, but he turns a deaf ear..Im with him almost 24/7 as we both work together as carpenters, but there are times i need to get away from him before i totally go off the board...i just get tired of it all and also all the fights at home cause we have no space apart....is it me or is there something wrong with this picture? or wrong with me?

2006-06-12 12:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by mkg101carp 3

2006-06-12 12:19:58 · 19 answers · asked by sexysam 1

2006-06-12 12:14:24 · 10 answers · asked by tom delonge 1

Let's say that after your marriage you heard that your wife/wives
are loose character because she/they had relationship with a guy/guys before you marry her and she is a second hand thing(like most western women) not a virgin. will you divorce her,hack her to pieces or behead her?

2006-06-12 12:09:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-12 12:05:15 · 12 answers · asked by a_snowe 2

included or Get Married & Try to keep you wife happy. Which one would you choose.

2006-06-12 12:02:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

It drives me crazy to see my parents like this. They divorced when I was about 8, and then "got back together" when I was 14. he really just moved back in with us. Things were so crazy, and I felt so uncomfortable with him there, even though I still saw him every once in a while. Im not even sure why she let him move back in, but they still fought all the time. We went through a lot of kicking him out, or him leaving for a while. And now Im starting to wonder if that was the root of all my problems today. Im single, and I believe its b/c 14 is the time when you start dating, and I was too depressed and worried about family issues....now Im 19, We lost our house, and now I live with my g-parents, and my parents are fighting all the time. My dad lives alone, but my mom wil stay there..but he kicks her out all the time. All they do is fight, and my mom is so down b/c she doesnt know what she does wrong! it just makes me feel crazy, b/c I dont know what to do to fix it all!? what can I do

2006-06-12 11:58:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is be after our child is asleep Sunday night? I want to do something different... HELP, Need some excitment in the bedroom.....

2006-06-12 11:54:04 · 7 answers · asked by Annie Mae 3

if youre relationship is a rollacoster ever since you had youre first child,, and u have more downs than ups in every aspect(sex,comunicaiton, trust ect,) then you give youre partner the chance of moving on and out before things get out of hand .. but he decides to stay and then cheats.. what the f. is he thinking.. why...?

2006-06-12 11:53:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is so sad but true. I'm divorced after 14 years. Since my divorce. I have dated several women over the last year and a half. I may like this about one and that about another, But never the whole package. They have all wanted to have a long term relationship... But as soon as they utter the love word.. I'm out the door. I know that I need to get on with my life and believe me. I'm trying. I have met someone that I am very compatable with who loves me very much, We have the same relationship and spiritual values. I like her and we get along great. However. I can't stop thinking about my ex wife. even though she cheated on me. We divorced because I obsessed about her affair, what should I do If my ex will not reconcile our marriage. We have a beautiful daughter who I care about deeply as I do my ex. I would settle for a friendship. But I think , She wants to forget that she commoted adultery and I am a costant reminder of what she did.

2006-06-12 11:52:38 · 2 answers · asked by christsluv4u 1

2006-06-12 11:28:56 · 35 answers · asked by Marmot 2

me and my hub lived with my inlaw for a year to help us "get on our feet" i was pregnant at the time, and she was making us pay $900 a month for rent. and every time i asked my hub to do something with me, all a sudden she needed him to do something for her. i invited her to 2 family dinners at my aunts house, she said she would go and then didn't. we lived with her for three months after my son was born and she followed me wround the house like a lost puppie, understanding it's her first grandkid give me a break. now that we've moved out, she thinks that we have to take our son to her house whenever she wants to see him. and only comes to ours when i;m not there. my hub gave her a carseat we didn't need, do i have the right to tell her she needs to ASK me before she takes my son anywere or should i trust my hub to do it?

2006-06-12 11:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by prettyinpink 2

We've been together for 15 yrs.-he makes less and dosn't think there is anything wrong in spending his check on gambling, ciggs., & beer. Usually his $ is spent in a couple of days, no contribution for household bills, then wants to spend what I have left after I pay bills, groceries, etc. & he thinks that it is my duty to take care of him because he works hard.(sometimes 15 hrs. a wk.-sometimes 40) He blows it anyway.

2006-06-12 11:20:52 · 14 answers · asked by mrs.toad 1

What I mean is like first and foremost sexually I got that down pat... Mentallly. Physically and emotionall if anyone can tell me preferably men let a sista know

2006-06-12 11:14:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read an article today that started out with this line..."Ryan B graduated from his high school in may and this weekend he will tie the knot with his classmate and 18 year old fiance' Wendy A." The article goes on to justify the marriage because Ryan is leaving for Iraq to fight with the US armed forces. My question is why do people that are 18 jump into something like this? The article gave no reason other than...oh they are happy together and they've been dating for TWO WHOLE years...WTF people? I know they are 18 and all, but where are the families and friends of these people to talk some sense into them? It makes me want to scream!!!...but not loudly. lol.

2006-06-12 11:08:01 · 11 answers · asked by Jeremy M 3

my wife in a fight told me that she would cheat on me. and that we would eventual get a divorce anyways. her response was total out of proportion to the type of fight we were having. in fact it was all a fight of assumptions and misundestanding.

should i be worried that a person that says something like that must have thought it already, or that they are a bit twisted to say something like that, or just should try to forget it. but it has damaged my trust in her greatly...she regrets it now...but it doesn't make it go away. it has made me very wary and suspicios always...as she said...i don't know what happens when i am not at home. ?????????????

2006-06-12 10:53:49 · 27 answers · asked by pinched 2

i was scared to tell my husband before marriage as knowing the same he will never marry me.i want to live with him forever and i love him to the core. but i feel guilty by not telling this truth to him .
pls help me to know wheather i should tell him now .

2006-06-12 10:21:45 · 26 answers · asked by pinku 1

2006-06-12 10:19:44 · 32 answers · asked by tigger3003uk 2