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Marriage & Divorce - 12 June 2006

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Do you think at 50 yrs of age with a broken marriage behind it is too old to start again.

2006-06-12 05:51:19 · 36 answers · asked by rastus 1

my baby's daddy cheated i took him back but there is not one moment i dont think about what he did to me, not a day passes by with out me feeling hurt and angry .. what should i do???

2006-06-12 05:50:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK which do you think is worst going to a park and talking to some girl about you problems with your spouse and being gone for 5 hrs or just riding on the back of some guys motorcycle.
see my husband disappeared for 5 hrs a couple of weeks ago and i found out later on that he was with some girl at work and talking to her about our problems.
Well all i did is smoke a couple of cigs and have one drink thoughout the last couple of weeks i dont normally do that but i did cause i was stressed i also just rode on the back of my friends husbands motorcyclce and i barely touched him but my husband is mad but i thin doing what he did was much worst.so what do you guys think?

2006-06-12 05:41:08 · 19 answers · asked by nikki 1

They talked while he was @ work. I founds his phone one night and saw her number and called. Told her to stop calling. But she calls every blue-moon. He locked his phone so I can't check it anymore. The reason he did it, b/c I didn't love on him enough. They haven't messed w/ each other (that I know of.) But why can't she stop calling him if they only knew each other for 'bout a month or two. When I confronted her the first time she caried more than I did. I let him go be w/ her the same nite i found out 'bout her. (kinda dumb right) That was so that he could tell her that it was over. We have 2 kids together. I want to hear from him that he was wrong but he doesn't think he was. It would be different if i was in his shoes. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-06-12 05:31:53 · 22 answers · asked by Vo 1

I found the question on People Pleasing very interested.
I am married to a people pleaser. I myself, have been guilty of this as well but my husband "beats the cake" so to speak.
I know it does have some advantages but with my dh. it has really affected our relationship because he puts others "needs before mine". People take advantage of his generosity and are always asking for help(help with moving, or getting him to drive them somewhere - it is ALWAYS something. Family are the worst.
I have been quite ill and we were at the drs. the other day and the dr.was going through my blood tests and dh said, "Don't you think we better go - there are people waiting!"
I know why dh is like this because he lost a friend (killed on road) when he was 12 - his friend asked him to come with him to watch his g/friend play netball and he said "no," and he made up some story and his friend got killed on the road - he felt guilty and had a breakdown.
He is ok now but still feels guilty. any ideas?

2006-06-12 05:29:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we heva been married for 4 years and this girl is always looking at me dirty does this mean she is jelous of me

2006-06-12 05:24:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im currently going through a cusstody battle and am a non-custodial mom.Where are some good online support groups, discussions and chats online?

2006-06-12 05:09:58 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1

I want to do something really special for our 10 year anneversary coming up in August, but i don't have really any money to spend. Does anyone have any ideas of something that doesn't cost much if anything that would be good to give him or do for him?

2006-06-12 05:04:24 · 10 answers · asked by Southern Girl/ deal with it! 3

If I was really good in bed and women found out what is the chances of making any money? Would a women pay for sex if it was REAL good and she knew it? How would you advertise to appeal to more of the better class women that are unhappy with their husband but don't want to leave? I mean really if you knew you were going to be satisfied would you pay for it?

2006-06-12 05:01:56 · 5 answers · asked by Best answer 2

2006-06-12 04:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by gentel 1

When are the guidlines in divorce papers followed? For example, am I still entitled to half of everything, until the divorce is final?

2006-06-12 04:41:16 · 5 answers · asked by benderjacob 1

For example, surprising your man in the shower, waking him up with oral...that kind of thing. If I ever snuck up on my guy, I would get slapped because of his reflexes! I mean if I go to get into bed and he's sleeping, he wakes up swinging a punch. just wondering?

2006-06-12 04:39:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Go ahead and brag. Tell everyone why your spouse or significant other is so special. I think that we need some positive energy here and let me start it off.
I love everything about my wife. The one thing I love most of all about her is her passion. She puts her heart into everything she does. I admire her.

Now, let's hear it.

2006-06-12 04:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by food for worms 2

I moved to the UK 4 years ago to study and met my husband soon after. He is a quirky loner who has worked in his mom's oppressive, closet-sized shop for 23 years.
We married last year b/c my funding ran out and I needed to find work. I only found a part-time job; I'm barely surviving.
I've now finished my Ph.D. We decided to move to the USA, as we've found him a good job, and we can live with my parents while I find a job.
But he is horrible about my situation NOW. I used to pay him £200 a month (rent), but now I can't. He throws it in my face that I don't pay him anymore (I pay all my own bils and expenses). He says that we got married for no reason, since I didn't find work. He says I don't appreciate the roof over my head. It HURTS!!
Yet he is excited to move to the states with me, to start over. He's always sorry and blames his mom for all the things he says. Do I stick it out til Sept. when we move? Or leave him behind, g on my own? It will be a HUGE step either way.

2006-06-12 04:26:31 · 13 answers · asked by Clarissa H 1

He is a hardworker, the father of my child and we were married 7 years until over a year ago I left him. He's been trying to reconcile a few times since then and it just seems that I can't trust him, even when he tells me how much he loves me and does everything to try to show it. But I feel that however nice he treats me when we spend small bits of time together that if I came back, issues would come up and my daughter would have to witness more agression. He has issues of abuse and alcoholic tendencies from his youth. So I'm confused, I haven't been able to maintain a relationship with anyone else either so this increases his pressure to resume our marriage. Any experiences?

2006-06-12 04:25:11 · 15 answers · asked by Mariah 3

my husband and i are in our second marriages.
i got divorced from the 1st marriage because he and i evntually realised that we really weren't meant to be together and that even by keeping married, . made things worse! Met someone who was exactly like me, dated, married and now have a kid. Things though are no longer the same...have been falling apart and what I keep asking is for him to spend time with us. I feel that it would get us closer again. But for him, for us to get closer and to help our relationship to get better is that he is out with his friends all the time. how is that going to help. how could he do his part when i'm here at home and his partying out. it's different when he invites me along but it's always JUST A BOYS thing...am i just being too sensitive or should i just finally say...THAT'S IT?!

2006-06-12 04:02:24 · 13 answers · asked by a_yogini 2

2006-06-12 03:45:51 · 30 answers · asked by Darkiee D 1

my daughter 15 lived with her dad, who didnt supervise her properly. She was not going to school and was recently raped. He could not handle her so he sent her to live with his parents. I filed a petition to have her stay with me (mom). The day I filled my ex called and said that it was in our childs best interest to live with me, but he didnt want to pay me child support. We meet at the court house signed an agreement that stated it was in her best interest to live with me and that no support would be paid. She has been with me since then.The judge set a court date. My question is, can I now say at this hearing that he should pay support? He hasnt even seen her since that day. And I paid him when he had her. Why should he get a free ride. Can he now contest custody if he has to pay support? What should I do? The case is today? I want my daughter either way, but feel he should py support as I had too. How should I tell the judge this?

2006-06-12 03:41:46 · 15 answers · asked by rubmaster36 2

2006-06-12 03:40:01 · 8 answers · asked by Kathy S 2

im not stereotyping any gender when it comes to this question because man or woman -- there is always the possibility to cheat. i've met many people who have cheated on their spouses because they're looking for something that their spouses can no longer give (read: sex). but when i ask them "why don't you separate with your spouse then? give them and yourself a chance to move on and find someone who can satisfy you?" they'd say "i still love him/her" then i'd ask "if you love this person, why did you cheat then?!" -- i don't think sex is an acceptable reason for cheating. obviously, these people didn't marry for love, but for lust. because if you love a person, no matter how imperfect he/she is... you'd never replace him/her with somebody else. so why do married people cheat (well not all of course.) instead of cheating, why not just separate with their spouses?

2006-06-12 03:34:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i jus gave birth and recently few ladies been calling my spouse.. i dunno whether i can trust him when he tells me that he dunno any of them.. i am suspicious all the time and i have come to the point that i wanna give up on the marriage and not bother to even salvage the relationship.. don't bother to tell me to go for candle light dinners to spice up the romance cos my spouse would not even bother to think of a place to go...i hate being the only person trying to spice things up... and the only answer that my spouse gives me is that he doesn't have any idesa where to go or wat to do..tell me is this the end of the rd????

2006-06-12 03:31:36 · 5 answers · asked by gwen 1

It breaks my heart that after all these years we cant seem to talk let alone do anything together. As far as I can tell there is nobody else and I am not interested in anbody except him even after all the mudslinging. I cant walk away from him no matter what I say or how tough I seem on the outside. Please any advice?

2006-06-12 03:31:01 · 8 answers · asked by rottenkid4560 3

2006-06-12 03:30:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok ladies i want to know how you handle and deal with your men checking out other girls when they tell you they love you how does it make you feel? how do you cope and deal with it? how do you not get jealous?

2006-06-12 03:30:14 · 14 answers · asked by kiatri 1

What would you do if you caught you husband masterbating, but you have been turning him down for sex? How can I make her feel more comfortable with us masturbating together. I think it is hot and she don't mind doing it alone but is ashamed in front of me.

2006-06-12 03:23:09 · 6 answers · asked by Best answer 2

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