I moved to the UK 4 years ago to study and met my husband soon after. He is a quirky loner who has worked in his mom's oppressive, closet-sized shop for 23 years.
We married last year b/c my funding ran out and I needed to find work. I only found a part-time job; I'm barely surviving.
I've now finished my Ph.D. We decided to move to the USA, as we've found him a good job, and we can live with my parents while I find a job.
But he is horrible about my situation NOW. I used to pay him £200 a month (rent), but now I can't. He throws it in my face that I don't pay him anymore (I pay all my own bils and expenses). He says that we got married for no reason, since I didn't find work. He says I don't appreciate the roof over my head. It HURTS!!
Yet he is excited to move to the states with me, to start over. He's always sorry and blames his mom for all the things he says. Do I stick it out til Sept. when we move? Or leave him behind, g on my own? It will be a HUGE step either way.
2006-06-12
04:26:31
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Clarissa H
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