It breaks my heart that after all these years we cant seem to talk let alone do anything together. As far as I can tell there is nobody else and I am not interested in anbody except him even after all the mudslinging. I cant walk away from him no matter what I say or how tough I seem on the outside. Please any advice?
2006-06-12 03:31:01 · 8 answers · asked by rottenkid4560 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to talk to him. The best way to do this is to go out to a quiet restaurant for dinner together one evening. Stay positive but get your point across to him about how you feel. You also need to ask him what has happened, at least in his opinion. Also, talk about the good times the two of you have had together. STAY POSITIVE! This will help both of you. This could be the start the two of you need to open up the talking again. The more the two of you can talk and stay positive, the better the chance you have of saving your marriage! I can tell that you still love and care for him, I wish you luck!
2006-06-12 04:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we need to let go of the ones we love and if its ment to be they'll come back.
its probably what you don't want to do but sometimes we need to walk away from the ones we "love" without looking back as much as it hurts. You see one of yous has to be the strong one if not eventually you will end up killing all the love you have inside.
being with someone especially when you love that person at lease to me one of things that is important is that we bring the best out of each other and if all we can do is be the worst or ugliest things out of each other then we should consider putting our hearts through the strain and unhappiest
2006-06-12 11:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest counseling. Both of you need to talk it out and find out when things began to change and what you can do to make it better. I commend you for sticking to your vows ("...for better or for worse...") and trying to make it work. Too many people are too quick to just end it. If you can't afford a counselor, many churches have qualified counselors and pastors that may be of help to you for a very small fee if any at all. Good luck.
2006-06-12 10:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After talking about it with him to find out why and if the answer is still, "I don't know, I just am" then maybe it's time to just become friends and see if that works. I know that I would want someone to be married to that actually loves me and continues to love me.
2006-06-12 10:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by matt g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
have u tried when you two are alone and not arguing "hey honey... you remember that time.... "
i hope things work out between you two, but take heart :) where theres a will theres a way.
best wishes,
tony
maybe you can beat the crap out of him and say " why won't you talk to me!!! I love you!!!"
2006-06-12 10:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why? Try marriage counseling together. Or leave and start over. I know easier said than done but it can be done.
2006-06-12 10:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by charleedude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2006-06-12 10:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by sweetypie9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll kicked him to the curved and move on.
2006-06-12 10:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by monnurse7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋