ok ladies i want to know how you handle and deal with your men checking out other girls when they tell you they love you how does it make you feel? how do you cope and deal with it? how do you not get jealous?
2006-06-12 03:30:14 · 14 answers · asked by kiatri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok i hear ya all but how do you know if he is acting on the looks ya know like see a hottie in dillions then go back later to hook up how do you find out/
2006-06-12 08:08:13 · update #1
i think it's somewhat a disrespect when a man checks out another woman -- right in front of his spouse. can't he at least do it when his spouse is not around?
scientifically, men are driven by sight -- they will look at something they find interesting.
men are stupid (well not all of them) -- i once like this guy who didn't pay attention to me. so finally i moved on and found someone else -- then he was all over me.
obviously when they're looking for women, they're not looking for the possibility of love, but rather who's stock is really high in the market -- the unattainable one. (no matter how trampy she is) and then regret it when they find someone better. they're stupid.
it's so hard finding a guy who's genuine, humble, and true nowadays. that's sad.
i know this is not answering your question... well the "stupid" part kinda answers it.
2006-06-12 03:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
I DO get jealous AND I let him know it. We're pretty open with each other. If he is checking out someone to the point where it's obvious- I call him on it, gently, but I do. He can't tell when I check out guys, I am discreet to the point he feels I only have eyes for him. He tries very hard to be as stealthy at it and makes sure I know I'm tops in his world.
2006-06-12 10:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl i feel u so much i am having that same problem i just had to cut him loose. It makes me feel bad cuz i be like i no he see me right here and i also no that a dude is gon be a dude a look but dont do it while i'm right there u no. but i dont think its about being jealous i feel we have every right to get to mad if they're looking cuz they shouldn't be doing it in the first place then when you get mad they got the nerve to call you jealous and i disagree with that one. Maybe you should tell him how u feel.
2006-06-12 10:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by glamorous 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one would be very hurt and upset by this. It would make me feel not loved and attractive to my husband. They are not really loving their wife if they do this and vice verca if it is the woman it is the same thing. I do get very hurt by it and dont like it at all! But ladies i will tell you a little secret though if you dress sexy and attractive for your husband and do things with him that he likes to do in and out of the bedroom and spoil him rotten you will be his dream and he will be alot less likely to do this!
2006-06-12 11:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. first off let the guy look cos admit it we dress sexy for others to look rite???? u can also look at other guys but do be sure to comment abt the guy in front of him.. so that he will feel the same pinch..when both of you come to an agreement that its jus harmless looking... then both of you can comment on the guy & gals that you see to each other.. chill girl its jus harmless looking.. have some fun out of it.....
2006-06-12 10:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by gwen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is rude for a guy (husband or boyfriend) to stare or glance at another woman especially if it is really obvious. I know guys can't help look at a beautiful woman, but if you are with him and he stares or makes it really obvious when he looks at another woman, it is disrespectful and rude.
2006-06-12 11:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by martha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he just looks it doesn't bother me. I cope with it because he's coming home WITH ME...Men look, period. They all do it, it's just a fact of life.
If it bothers you, why not give him a dose of his own medicine - you scope out guys...
2006-06-12 10:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a boy tell me he loves me my heart feel like it's going to go KA-Boom liked a ballon. It feels like fate.
2006-06-12 10:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by monnurse7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really don't bother me because i know my man is faithful to me and only me. and if it really bothers you start checking out other men while he is around and let him see how it feels
2006-06-12 10:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by rmr1979_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have to worry about it since I am 100% single :)
2006-06-12 10:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋