we heva been married for 4 years and this girl is always looking at me dirty does this mean she is jelous of me
2006-06-12 05:24:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Classic case of BI GYM “Boom I Got Your Man”
It is my opinion that women rarely marry without being in love, there for yes these looks are steaming from jealousy, and maybe even hurt. When she see you she may be trying to see what you have that she doesn’t, what makes you so much better than her and mostly what HE sees in you.
So feel important someone is envious if you. Don’t waste you time trying to find out exactly why she’s always looking at you. Be non-responsive, you have what she wants. Don’t mess things up be ending up in a confrontational situation with your husbands ex.
2006-06-12 05:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ray-Ray 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that her giving you dirty looks has anything to do with you at all, unless you were the reason that they split up in the first place. Put yourself in her shoes; jealousy may or may not be a reason. I don't think you need to "tell her something" Quit caring what she does or what she thinks; no one ever said you need to be friends with his ex. Why are you spending time with her anyway?
2006-06-12 12:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is there any reason for his ex to be around you two?
If he has kids with her, then you can simply not be there when he picks them up.
If they don't have kids, then there's no reason for her to even be around you guys. You should not be married to someone who still hangs out with his ex, especially if she's rude to you and he still wants to hang out.
Ask her what her problem is. You also have to think about the fact that you're with the guy that used to be her man. She has every reason in the world not to like you.
2006-06-12 12:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by MyBestFriendIsMuslim.....So? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she looks dirty at you send her the loudest raspberry you can. You'd better train hard on how to send raspberries, let hubby teach you, it's all for a good cause.
2006-06-12 12:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably you should just ignore her and get all up on your husband.lol.So his ex can see that you dont care what she says and he's your man now.Maybe you can give her snobby looks when she stares at you with your husband.lol
2006-06-12 12:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by TexasPunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say so yes but dont be rude or obnoxious to her. Have your husband tell her that she should not be doing this to you.... you also might want to stay away from her. She could be angry and hurt as well! Did you steal him away from her?
2006-06-12 12:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if they have kids together. If they do, let it ride. Dont make the situiation worse for the child. If they dont, I'd say something to her. Don't let her intimidate you.
2006-06-12 12:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, she's jealous! You were able to do what she could not, and that's satisfy your man and keep him happy. She envies you! Don't let it bother you! Whose bed will he be in tonight? YOURS! Enough said!!
2006-06-12 12:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be jealous of you, but then again, maybe she is looking for a chance to pull you aside and explain what happened in their relationship...maybe she blames you for breaking them up?
2006-06-12 12:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is jelous in the worst way .. you have what once was hers .. she will always look at you that way . get use to it ..
2006-06-12 12:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋