2006-06-12 12:29:58 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take it from me.. I just went through this// only the guy didn't even know it... I finally prayed for God to take these feelings away,,that I know it is sooo wrong... that if he helped me... I could get him out of my mind... plus/// I got a lot of feedback from yahoo answers also...and I read them, and thought about what they were saying.. and I am glad to say//that I realized that what I have is wonderful// and I don't want to know what would happen if I told him,, becaue I am sure I would of looked like a fool. literally!
So,, let him be,, and go on w/ your life.. because if he will run around on her,,,then he most likely would do it to you,,or even go back w/ her//when the newness of you wears off...
You don' t want a hand me down.. u r better than that!
2006-06-12 13:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by Paige 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Babes u can never make him love u enough to leave her,plus marriage is sacred,n by u trying to get in btwn them makes u a homewrecker,whichever way u look at it,plus how would u feel if u were the one married to someone n a friend did that to u.What I would suggest is for u to try n get over it no matter how hard it is,look 4 someone that's single,there r a lot of really good single men out there who can love,care n provide 4 u more than u ever imagined,but keep this in mind what goes around comes around.
2006-06-12 12:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by sexy'sback 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the married man was meant to be with you then you do not have to make him love you, that is one. two, if the married man can leave his wife to be with you, then possibly another woman who feels like she is the one, might be able to take him away from you. You should pray about these feelings that you have. People have gotten killed over things like this. It is not worth it
2006-06-12 13:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by marie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did he cheat ? Does he love he? Did he ever? Has something happened between the 2? How is she? What is she like? Does she know? Does she love him or what? There are so many aspencts that might influence the 3 of you...Does he feel obliged to stay with her for some reason? Do they have kids? Does he believe he ows her? Do you know the situation between the 2? Sometimes it works. Something was seriously wrong for him to be with you anyway. If he is serious and not just a man who wanted to have sex with another woman then he should feel confident of his love for you and vice versa and believe that he can have a joint life with you ...
2006-06-14 05:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with a married man too. I have been seeing him for a year but knew from the beginning nothing would come from it. Unfortunately we can't make people love us , otherwise I would be married. IT is an unfortunately thing we get ourselves into. Hope you can accept that it probably won't happen. I have trouble myself thinking about the day my relationship will end.
2006-06-12 12:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make him feel any different about you or her.but you do need to ask yourself some serious questions here. if you are ment to be together why arnt you.if you were could you whole heartedly trust this man for you already know he has the ability to cheat and betray.don't waste time waiting be strate up and say this is wot i want are you capable of giving this to me. if he is he will leave his wife and the two of you are ment to be. if he is not able to provide for you what makes you happy as hard as it is walk in the opposite direction and don't look back.for you are not ment to be. shut that door for it can only offer you less than you need and deserve. all other doors are left open allowing for something far more positive to come your way.good luck
2006-06-12 12:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by DOLLYl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him straight up if he is ever going to leave her. Odds are he isn't going to and is getting the best of both worlds YOU and HER. It's hard to move on I've been there...in love with a married man that would not leave his wife, but he told me that from the get go. You need to move on if he won't leave her.
2006-06-12 12:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If he is with you, he is cheating on her. If he leaves her for you, he'll end up cheating on you. and either way, he's a liar, and you are being selfish. Think about his WIFE and her feelings. Would you want to be in her shoes?
He is just a man, and not the only man in the world. Wipe that glassy look of your face and realize that there IS someone else out there for you, who is available to you in every aspect. Walk away... and spend your energy finding the one who really IS right for you.
2006-06-12 12:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad....you shouldn't be messing around with a married man and if he is messing around with you while he is married then guess what he doesn't know what true love is. You both are wrong and he is NOT meant to be with you or else he would have married you to begin with.
2006-06-12 12:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by kkds14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how i feel you shouldn't be with him any way you need to find you a man who is single just like you and that is nasty if he is still with his wife uuuggghhh. listen get out of the relationship while you still can because god looks upon that as wrong because it is wrong messing with a married man and if he really loved you he would have left her long ago so my advice to you is leave him alone.
2006-06-12 12:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋