This is so sad but true. I'm divorced after 14 years. Since my divorce. I have dated several women over the last year and a half. I may like this about one and that about another, But never the whole package. They have all wanted to have a long term relationship... But as soon as they utter the love word.. I'm out the door. I know that I need to get on with my life and believe me. I'm trying. I have met someone that I am very compatable with who loves me very much, We have the same relationship and spiritual values. I like her and we get along great. However. I can't stop thinking about my ex wife. even though she cheated on me. We divorced because I obsessed about her affair, what should I do If my ex will not reconcile our marriage. We have a beautiful daughter who I care about deeply as I do my ex. I would settle for a friendship. But I think , She wants to forget that she commoted adultery and I am a costant reminder of what she did.
2006-06-12 11:52:38 · 2 answers · asked by christsluv4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmmmm I personally think you need to deal with the divorce emotionally and mentally before getting involved with someone else. Otherwise, you will obsess about your ex and the relationship you had before the affair. And, I think that you also need counseling to learn how to not obsess about things/people. This can be dangerous and come between you and anyone you date/love.
Good luck!
2006-06-12 12:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand she has moved on and you really should do the same. Stay out of the dating game until you are ready this isn't fair to the ladies you have been seeing. Think of it this way-would you want someone to play with your heart? I didn't think so
2006-06-17 19:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rickstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋