Marriage & Divorce - 6 June 2006

How would you feel if she didn't? Do you think it would cause problems later on?

2006-06-06 07:01:15 · 17 answers · asked by ladysea8 3

If yes, then good for you, if No, what's the big deal? I think it's an honor to take on the name of the man whom you have chosen to spen the rest of your life with.

2006-06-06 06:56:33 · 16 answers · asked by ladysea8 3

This past weekend we went on a camping trip... It was myself, my husband, my best friend, her boyfriend and his best friend which so happens to be my old flame. I found out today that he still has feelings for me and thinks I deserve better. In a sad sad sad way I want him back to, but I love my husband more than anything so I would never do anything to hurt him. So question is what do I do and do I tell my husband about my new info??

2006-06-06 06:52:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm military and my husband is not. I have had several affairs within the last 5 years (especially when I have military duty). He's a good man and we have a daughter. I want him back.....what do I do?

2006-06-06 06:51:04 · 14 answers · asked by tcnb1234 1

None supportive, constant use of abusive speech to the children and myself and say that they can't love me as a wife

2006-06-06 06:45:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has been with her husband since high school. He's the only person she's ever been with and they have 4 kids together and he's a real good father and he does all the house work and pays all the bills. But, she's says that she's not happy and wants to try something different,because her husband won't give her any oral pleasure. I told her that she should be happy because she ahs someone that loves her, takes care of her, and their kids. So, she just told me that she cheated on him and he found out because he heard her on the phone with me and now he doesn't want a divorce because he loves his kids and he growup without his father and doesn't want his kids to go through the same thing. Now he doesn't trust her, they don't talk, and they don't sleep together now. Should he forgive her and give her another chance and trust her again? What do you think?

2006-06-06 06:34:52 · 26 answers · asked by BrownSuga26 2

I'm looking into divorcing my husband but don't know where to start. Are there any resources that can give you advise on the do's and dont's so that I don't get screwed in the process?

Before our marriage I bought a house under my name only, in California how can I avoid it to be community property? I'm planning on refinancing it prior to the divorce so I can get my finances in order and make it on my own. Is there a way that I can transfer title of my home to someone else prior to the divorce so that it isn't considered community property?

Another thing, all of "our" assets are under my name because he is here illegally. What rights does he have against the assets? Thanks for reading!!!

2006-06-06 06:20:18 · 3 answers · asked by muneka3615 1

I've been divorced for about a year b/c I was unhappy in my marraige. I don't at all miss my ex but I constantly have dreams about him. Why?

2006-06-06 06:18:51 · 18 answers · asked by beauty 1

Note: this is NOT a question just about whether gay marriage or homosexuality in general is wrong. But it's abut if you think gay marriage is a threat to heterosexual marriage and why. Thanks!

2006-06-06 06:17:09 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

My soon-2-b x-husband told me he wasn't in love with me anymore on Valentine's Day. This is the 2nd time he's done this, thus our 2nd divorce! I found out that I was pregnant (with his baby, of course) 2 weeks later. He said he wanted nothing to do with "it", that I should get an abortion, this baby was not made out of love and that it has no reason to live. We have two daughters together already and I'm due with our third in November. He was a good father to them, besides choosing the "single life" instead of the "family life". I refused abortion and literally hate him now cause of the words he has chosen about this pregnancy. He thinks I planned it behind his back (I DID NOT!). I was extremely devastated but am so in love with our unborn child already. If he ends up having a change of heart later on, should I let him "get to know" our unborn child that he said so many mean things about? I know it's his legal right but how could I or should I do?

2006-06-06 06:10:40 · 13 answers · asked by ophee 2

When I first married my husband he would occasionally spank me for things he said I needed discipline but now it seems he looks for every opportunity and I am getting fed up with this. Sometimes it really hurts alot. Do many men spank their wives and how do they deal with it..the wives and the husbands???

2006-06-06 06:04:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-06 06:02:07 · 6 answers · asked by CaliMa 3

My wife was raped when she was 16. She told me when we were dating and we’ve now been married ten years. This happened 15 years ago. The man who raped her was 21 and since it was a small town, I know him. At a very minimum, he committed statutory rape but it was even worse then that. He took her out on a boat, got her drunk to the point she was vomiting and had his way with her. She did not report it and blames herself for being so “stupid” as to put herself in that situation. I am relieved she has put it behind her but I don’t think she ever really dealt with it emotionally. I don’t know why it still bothers me but it infuriates me to think of what he did to her. I too sometimes feel like a retroactive victim because to this day, my wife is not very affectionate with me and I think she still needs to heal. For a long time, she was very cold about sex and affection and I think this incident is largely to blame. She just wants to “forget it.” How can I convince her that she

2006-06-06 05:56:43 · 12 answers · asked by happilyeverafter 1

I mean can a man of very low income be confident of a genuine love from a woman.?

2006-06-06 05:53:39 · 14 answers · asked by Micheal Adeoluwani 1

2006-06-06 05:47:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-06 05:46:04 · 1 answers · asked by beanie 1

Do you people belive in balck magic in Love. Is it really possible to get back your lost lover back. If so please prive me the details..

2006-06-06 05:45:29 · 6 answers · asked by Kn Kn 1

What do you wish you had more in common?
Do you believe that you get along better that you aren't so much alike?

For example:Uncommon:
Different taste in music.
I think excercise and healthy eating is important,/ he always wants to cooks fattening foods and doesn't excercise w/ me.
I am into fashion,, and he could care less.
I like to be in the crowd and involved.. he does not.

Common:
Both like to take cruises/ vacation and do the same types of things while on it, grill outdoors, keep things clean and picked up, good hygiene, go out to eat, camp, play games w/ teen chilren.

2006-06-06 05:45:07 · 5 answers · asked by Paige 4

We moved down here with jobs lined up at an ISP. After 8 months, he had an ethical dispute with management and left. It took him 11 months to find another IT job, during which time he spent most of it playing an online game, surfing job posting sites, etc.

We had to use up our credit card limits again because of surviving on my income alone for almost a year. He managed to get hired again, and the 3 months he worked there I worked to get our debt down, and we got a little bit ahead. And then he got laid off. And it's been 3 months again and now we're slipping behind.

I'm not asking him to go out and find a huge paying job in a field he doesn't like. I'm just asking him to find part time or temporary employment to cover about 200-400 A MONTH that we're always behind. I don't think that's asking too much. Don't care how. He refuses to "work at a gas station" or grocery store, etc. Pride?

How can I motivate him without nagging to find some income, while he looks for a new job?

2006-06-06 05:41:02 · 4 answers · asked by UnrealJuju 2

1)sexual co-operation.
2)friendly behavior.
3)advising quality.
4)loyal.& affection

2006-06-06 05:35:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

here is my story. My husband is young like me 23. weve been married 1 year. we have been fighting alot because im always jealous. Im jelous becase he always was going out staying late not too late but didnt always answer his phone. I also put a key logger on the computer and caught him visiting some sites like friendfinder.com u can meet singles in your area he made a profile but u have to pay for the site but he didnt pay but i saved his profile. He denied it and said its his friend who came by at 10 am ???. he wasnt making love to me much just pleasing himslef and thats it. one night he came home with a valet tag i asked him whats this he said his friend borrowed his car while his was visiting his brother. I was pissed i didnt belive him so i visited my friend whos husband is close with mine. I told her i felt something not right. She told me yah your husband told my hisband him and his brother were at a strip club.He told me alot more stuff too.

2006-06-06 05:25:50 · 36 answers · asked by GIRL 1

My husband gave me his email login to check for an email since our home computer was down. When I logged in, I found that he has been chatting with a longtime friend across the country and there have been sexual conversations.

When I confronted him, he said that it was innocent flirting that went too far. There is no way there was contact - but I am still hurt. What should I think or do?

2006-06-06 05:19:48 · 10 answers · asked by postprego 1

How would allowing gays to marry affect your marriage, if at all?

2006-06-06 05:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by hichefheidi 6

I did tell me your story.

2006-06-06 05:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a boyfriend overseas after i broke up with my ex. this new guy is really weird, kinda nice but after i got to know him more i realised that he's not the type of guy i'd be with me. i mena he's a great fun but nth more. How do i explain that?
he seems a lot into me.

2006-06-06 05:13:57 · 19 answers · asked by rafinuota 2

i mean really really hate you and they won't tell you why.

2006-06-06 05:06:46 · 11 answers · asked by whatsit2u 3

2006-06-06 05:03:18 · 21 answers · asked by Brendon B 2

My man and i have been together for 7 months and he says he loves me, and i think i love him. He is really trying to get out of his mama's house. So i told him to move in with me at my parents house, but the only way that is possible is if we get married. I was all for it and i was pressuring him last night to do it. And he said ok this friday, but now i am having second thoughts. I am scarred. this means i can't go out and have fun, have little flings, or talk to other guys. Cuz marriage to me is very serious, thats the end of single life. There is no such word as divorce. What should i do? I could see myself with him forever growing old with each other, but i am scarred of leaving my single life.......my freedom. Please help.

2006-06-06 04:58:53 · 41 answers · asked by Nancy 1

I understand that guys will look but at least they don't have to make it obvious.

2006-06-06 04:58:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems he thinks about lieing before the truth. I know it has something to do with his upbringing, but how can I help him change that way of life before it ruins are relationship. I mean he lies about things I actually see him do and he knows I saw him, and he still says he didn't do it...Just like a kid would if you caught them with crumbs on their face a still say they didn't eat the cookie..please any advice will help...I think he was just born to lie

2006-06-06 04:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5