i mean really really hate you and they won't tell you why.
2006-06-06 05:06:46 · 11 answers · asked by whatsit2u 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its hormonal, But don't let it stress you just love her no matter how much she may hate you at the moment, she will love you again, when you think these hate sessions are starting do something sweet. pick up the house or take her out. don't let her use the hate against you and it will slow down.
saying it is hormonal is a cop out. everyone is in control of their own emotions and behavior. show her you love her anyway and she will learn to love you through the hormones.
2006-06-06 05:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by hiyahun1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 38, and not only have I never done this in my life, but I've never known anyone who has ever done this. If anyone, male or female, hates one minute and loves the next, I'd have this person looked at for mental illness, namely bipolar disorder or even psychosis.
Also, sorry to say, the person asking this doesn't sound very emotionally intelligent. You may be involved with a very moody and emotional person, but do you think about what you say before you say it? Do you watch your tone of voice? Do you know that some words have more of an emotional impact than others?
For all those who said PMS, let's stop being simplistic. PMS is not the answer, has never been the answer, will never be the answer. To imply that everything wrong or everything emotional with all women everywhere has to do with their BODIES is a type of glib, simplistic, superficial sexism that does not look at women as humans with complex intelligence and emotional lives. So spare me the glibness, spare me the oversimplification, and most of all, spare me the ignorance about anatomy and physiology.
Overall, I'd have to wonder about the asker of this question more than any woman. If this is a pattern, then I'd say that the asker himself may be an emotionally insensitive jerk, or someone who is overbearing, arrogant, uncompassionate, not empathatic, and who does not think before he speaks. Or maybe he just says whatever, and lets the chips fall where they may, without a care in the world for other people's feelings. And then when people get upset, or are happy, he cannot figure out that it has anything to do with what he said and how he said it.
Good luck with your life. Good luck becoming human and compassionate and empathetic. Listen to what you say and how you say it, and your relationships will probably improve like magic.
Cheers, K the skeptical and cynical
2006-06-06 05:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They would always use PMS as an excuse to love you/hate you every other minute. Do that on them and they won't take any excuse for an answer.
2006-06-06 08:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by prinz57 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because ur smart one minute and then stupid the next. Guys need 2 learn to control their attidue. Thats what happened to my old boyfriend.
2006-06-06 05:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you might have bought them something at the time and then refused on something else. Alot of times they suffer from its their world and your in it syndrome
2006-06-06 05:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PMS- Premenstual Cycle.. its what happens before and during their period. We become really sensitive and moody. Treat your girl best at this time!! cuz with PMS she can kick yo *** lol. im dead serious though
2006-06-06 05:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a reason they feel this way. Have you treated each other badly at all? What has happened to make her feel this way?
2006-06-06 05:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like borderline personality dissorder
2006-06-06 05:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by tp3bop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its called PMS.
2006-06-06 05:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they call it PMS
2006-06-06 05:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋