Marriage & Divorce - 6 June 2006

2006-06-06 15:52:47 · 23 answers · asked by johal j 1

i'm seperated nearly a year. he won;t pay maintence or ring to talk to his children. They are desparetly upset and wondering why Daddy won't talk to them.He sends letters to the children telling them what a bad person I am and how many gifts he has for them . I left because of mental & physical violence and the fact that he told me and the children he was in love with somebody else. Changed his mind after I left ( about 2 hours ) now I'm living with the consequences. He tried to commit suicide, checked himself out of hospital, had police loking for him, told all the neighbours that his father had recently died ( not true ).Actually held a memorial!!
Informed social welfare that he was giving me money ( also not true, hasn't paid a penny since I left) has just bought a new house & business in different state while I am left with the reposession of family home and all previous debts amounting to €60 thousand euros. What do I do I do to stop this PHSYCO

2006-06-06 15:35:38 · 6 answers · asked by catherine alison 1

my husband is a retard i called him and he said he would come back but not now he didnt know how long he was going to stay with mommy and daddy and she called me and told me she felt like i was using her and her husband how the hell am i doing that i dont ask her for anything like her son does and then she was going to say well a wife needs to be with her husband but he was the one who wanted to go i didnt force him then when he came back to get some stuff he told my mom there was no working it out i hadnt seen him for 1 month or even really talked to him on the phone but he came back the other day just to visit and said he wanted to work it out but he isnt willing to stay here or whatever so what the F*@$ should i do

2006-06-06 15:32:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married to husband for 6 months after a 7 month courtship. We both have a kid but not together, mine calls him dad, his calls me mom. (Kids are 4 and 5.) I am very unhappy tho. We have opposite hours, and I think I rushed into marriage for my daughter to have a dad more than being soulmates. I don't feel like we have that much in common, we have a debate about everything! My main problem is the incredible guilt I would have because the kids, but otherwise I see NO reason to stay, Im suffocating inside! Is it better to end this now or will the damage already be done?

2006-06-06 15:12:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have heard penguins, once they find their mate, stay with them forever. Are there any other animals like that?

2006-06-06 15:11:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's for a friend of mine. She wants a divorce but what's stopping her is money. Does anyone know the law? Can you get a divorce for free (esp if you're in the military?)

2006-06-06 15:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by Ana 4

I understand that men jerk off and I love seeing my husband jerking off in bed and blah blah. But, I woke up earlier then normal and went in the living room and caught my husband jerking off to the internet and instead of turning me on it really bothered me to where I tried to talk to him and he was upset b/c he was embarressed and I had a look on my face of disgust. And we have been arguing about it on and off and I just don't know what to do. He has playboys and porn and we watch them together, but I felt like he could have come in the bedroom to enjoyed me instead of skiny chics on the internet(pics only).

2006-06-06 15:00:43 · 33 answers · asked by huskergirrrl 1

2006-06-06 14:59:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been the most anti-relationship person i know. i never want a family and i want to die alone and angry. i have been threw A LOT of stress lately and i woke up yesterday and told myself it is time to get married and settle down. what the hell!!! what is wrong with me?!?!?!

2006-06-06 14:56:54 · 8 answers · asked by the_conquer 2

My husband and I have been married a little over 2 yrs. We have a son together. He has been deployed for 9mo now and before he had left we were having some problems in our marriage. Since he has been gone, I have checked his buddylist and he's been talking to other females, I know its only talking but they call him baby and ask when hes going to call again and so on and so forth. I love my husband, yet I am no longer in love with him. Everytime something comes up about divorce he makes me promise I would never leave him. He's kind of insecure and we are each others first love, I am scared that if I leave I am making a bad choice however if I stay I don't know if thats the best answer either. He should be home in a few months and I want to try to rekindle our love for one another but I feel like we are more friends than anything. He knows I have been unhappy for a little over a year and we have stopped being the people we were when we were first together & Iraq has changed him BIG time

2006-06-06 14:55:26 · 56 answers · asked by Ana R 1

I've been married 6+yrs and have 3 children. Two years ago, he found out he was positive. I was angry, frustrated, scared and disappointed. I was ready to walk. Somehow, I've forgiven him and we've moved on. We're still together and I feel like an idiot. Why can't he understand my fears and not have to have sex with me? We've argued about this many times before. He said regardless of his condition, it doesn't take away his sexual desire. I cover up the fact during sex that I'm uncomfortable w/ him in spite of the fact that he uses a condom. I shudder going for check-ups now because I'm fearful of the day the doctor telling me something I won't be able to handle. I've prayed many times about this. What do you guys suggest?

2006-06-06 14:36:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not close with her husband, but I have talked with him on occasion. My friend has been cheating on him for over a few months now. The "other man" eventually stopped talking to her and she agreed she made a mistake by cheating and wouldn't do it again, but wouldn't you know, the man came back and now she's wanting him again. I've had enough. I've tried to be a good friend and tell her to not screw with this guy anymore, but she insists on it. Should I tell her husband? And if so, how should I do it? Should I talk to him face to face and risk him telling her I told him, or should I do it another way without identifying myself? He's already suspected that she's cheating, but he doesn't know for sure.

2006-06-06 14:31:17 · 23 answers · asked by Kristen 3

2006-06-06 14:29:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay now that he realizes he has lost me his is crying and saying he knows he made a big mistake and that he is deeply sorry ...
Okay everyone give me your opinions .... Especially after he has been cheating for 16years now that he knows I want out now he is sorry....

2006-06-06 14:20:39 · 32 answers · asked by flipper 1

It would not be the first time....after we have been together for 7 years

2006-06-06 14:19:05 · 62 answers · asked by monnie 1

2006-06-06 14:10:50 · 16 answers · asked by ladetina2cute4u 1

I think my man is cheatin on me. I mean he comes home every night around 1 a.m. I call his office every night but they tell me dat he has gone for da day since like 8 p.m. But I'm afraid to ask him if he cheatin on me. I mean wat if he aint cheatin on me and he gets mad. Please all ppl out there HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-06-06 13:47:48 · 17 answers · asked by LuvlyGirl 3

We feel more like friends than lovers. How do we get back to the way it was when we were first married?

2006-06-06 13:47:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-06 13:38:46 · 13 answers · asked by lindsay w 1

I am still in love with my ex-husband and every time I see him he still hugs me, tells me how good I look, even goes so far as to ask me to go out for drinks with him. But the other night when I actually sat down and had a heart-to-heart, he let on like he wanted to get back together. He even said, "I really want to have another baby together." Like an idiot, I bought it, and of course now he won't return my phone calls, and finally when I did talk to him he said he was just "being stupid" the other night. I know he will never change, and his unwillingness to communicate honestly with me reminds me why we divorced in the first place. But every time he leads me on, then shoots me down, it turns the knife all over again. What do I do to get over him? It is wrecking any chance I have at a normal relationship with anyone else, and taking a huge toll on my sanity. I don't know if I'm coming or going lately...

2006-06-06 13:34:05 · 18 answers · asked by Frankie Baby 82 3

2006-06-06 13:30:20 · 3 answers · asked by Meggan G 1

well I am 20. there is a guy who want to marry me.I been in a lot of problems with guys. all want sex thats it. what u girls think. u dont have to love the person u love. love came after marrige. or leve the persont who want me as wife . or go to the other guys who just wanna have fun.

2006-06-06 13:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1

2006-06-06 13:27:46 · 20 answers · asked by engine119 1

tells me I'm crazy. How do I make him realize he is a liar?

2006-06-06 13:26:13 · 6 answers · asked by sky 1

2006-06-06 13:10:13 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently decided to leave my husband for several reasons (irresponsible, physically/emotionally abusive, financially draining etc...but this is a different story altogether). my son is 7 years old and he grew up spending most of the time with his father, since he is unemployed. i admit that my son is his father's son but what i can't take is that my son does not want to be with me even just on weekends when i don't have work.

when i dropped by to pick him up he was crying and said that he wouldn't go with me and he does not want me to take him to my mom's house where i stay. son also said he is not happy at my mom's place because he has no playmates there. ok, true. but it is really heartbreaking if he refuses to go out with me without his father. he said he's afraid i might take him. what is this? am i a kidnapper? that's how i feel my son looks at me. i don't hurt my son.

this happened shortly after i decided not to give money to ex-hubby.

how can i take him back?

2006-06-06 13:07:55 · 16 answers · asked by travlin soul 2

Hi, I just got the ring back from my ex-fiancee. Aside from any reason behind getting it back, what should I do with it? It is valued around 4 grand.

2006-06-06 13:01:47 · 27 answers · asked by Mark L 1

i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and i can't see myself with anyone else ever. we have a 10 month old daughter. although we argue once in a while, we are happy with our lives together. do u think we are ready to get married or should we wait a few years?

2006-06-06 12:55:17 · 27 answers · asked by britni7887 1

My wife has an H1visa and she petitioned me to came here in states as dependent w/our two kids, but she got involved w/someone and she stopped her financial support to me. So, I can file a complained to INS about my situation? She wants to divorced me, so i'll out of status.

2006-06-06 12:44:20 · 2 answers · asked by dioscoro2004 1

My boyfriend proposed to me on the weekend and I have said "yes". Anyway, he had/has no ring because he spent the last of his savings paying off his house to sell (it's on the market now)so we can buy a bigger home together. He said he feels bad about the 'ring thing' and reckons he didn't think of it... Not that I care all that much as this is a second marriage. Anyway, I told the people I work with that I am engaged and all they can say is "where's the ring?" . . . Apart from that they could barely bat an eye. I feel really hurt. His family and friends are lovely and are really excited - but my mother and family don't care less except for a couple of my friends. . . This is really depressing me (I cried about it last night) because it's meant to be an exciting and wonderful time and people's non-plus and almost negative attitudes towards me are putting a wet blanket over the whole thing. I guess I just want a bit of friendly feedback from someone..... :)

2006-06-06 12:38:52 · 18 answers · asked by gwibsy 1