I think my man is cheatin on me. I mean he comes home every night around 1 a.m. I call his office every night but they tell me dat he has gone for da day since like 8 p.m. But I'm afraid to ask him if he cheatin on me. I mean wat if he aint cheatin on me and he gets mad. Please all ppl out there HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-06 13:47:48 · 17 answers · asked by LuvlyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sure that if things were reversed and you were coming home at 1am every night, he would ask you were have you been. You can ask him the question but you may not get a truthful answer. Either way, he's being disrespectful towards you. I wouldn't jump into this with accusations, but I certainly would want an explanation. After wards, you have to decide if you can trust him, or not. Remember this, if he is cheating on you, you don't know if he is using protection, be careful with this. Don't become a statistic.
2006-06-06 14:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
There is not a certain way to know if someone is cheating until you ask them. Even if they deny it, deep down you'll know if he is or isn't after that it's a matter of your accepting it and making your move from there.
However, one thing is certain, from 8 to 1am there is someplace he would rather be than home. That in itself is a problem that has to be addressed seperately, the rest should fall into place. Good luck.
I hope this answer just changed a life. Peace.
2006-06-06 13:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 08:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by belschner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him. If he is cheating, then you have to know. If he is not cheating, then you deserve to know where he is. If he gets mad, then that is his problem. If he was being honest from the beginning, you wouldn't have to ask. It sounds like he has some issues. You may just need to cut your losses and go. Regardless of what you choose to do, you deserve to have all of the info so you can make an informed choice. Good luck.
2006-06-06 13:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with asking..Your sitting home alone every night from the way it sounds...Nothing worse than waiting on someone not knowing where they are...You can come up with a way to ask in a nice way where he is and why he don't come home...The longer you wait the harder its going to be...One thing for sure he is doing something and it may not even be what your thinking..So ask!!!!
2006-06-06 14:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds more like you aren't worry about him getting mad, but about finding out the truth. You already know weather or not he is, and if you suspect that you need to talk to him. Communication, trust, and honesty are three things that no healthy relationship can live without. Not addressing it and finding out will only hurt you. CAUTION: be prepared you might hear something you dont want to
2006-06-06 13:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by LoTs2ShArE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First start out by asking him what time he got off work. If he says later than you know he did, then you know he is lying to you and something isn't right. After that, start your investigating.
You obviously have reason to worry about him so you need to talk to him. But keep in mind that if he is doing something and you question him about it, it's only going to make him hide the evidence better. So be careful about what you let him know.
2006-06-06 13:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giirl, trust your instincts. Where would he be going and staying out that late at night. I would want to know! If he got mad at me for asking, that shows even more that he is guilty. If he admits to cheating and gets mad, what have you lost? A loser?? Better to know and get out of the situation.
2006-06-06 13:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never stop worrying until you know the truth. If you don't want to ask him, you need to follow him and see where he is going after he leaves for work. But, realize you may not like what you find out....
2006-06-06 14:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
ask him
communicate with him
and tell him that yo would love to spend time with him at home
if he still doe sthis then why dont u go away for a night and he will worry where u are
when he contacts yiu say u needed company as he is never there
teach him a lesson
2006-06-06 13:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by my_bleww_eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋